LOL the thing is if I give a current POI to a reader they usually always say "he is not for long term", ends with 10 of swords etc 
another one is coming by...
but I then have another reading with the reader after a couple of months of meeting this new POI and they always say "there's another one who is for long term in X couple of months" 
I've been avoiding dating or getting close with anyone bcs of this.. I don't know which one to trust honestly