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Psychic Effects on POI and Relationships

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russianred:
Bumping thread in hopes of receiving more thoughts...

I thought this was a great thread idea and have wondered about this a lot.  It's been a big motivator for me to stop getting so many readings.

Miss Philosopher:
A couple of thoughts I have on this are as follows:

I do believe that everything is an energy. Therefore, whoever we are connected to, or not even in touch with, can feel when your energy is focused on them or not. And that is whether they are even consciously aware of it or not. That said, this is why it is said to LET GO of the situation/person and change your focus on something else. Letting go doesn't just mean going silent on a person, lying in wait for them to contact or something. It means energetically letting it go. When you do that, they can then feel that detachment and lack of your energy with them. THAT is when a "loss" or a "void" or a "feeling as though something is missing" feeling hits them. That is the ONLY time it will be felt. They may not be aware of exactly what it is they're feeling, but it's something that is suddenly "gone" from them. Why do you think it is that it always seems like when we're moved on to someone else, the ex or the previous POI pops back up? It's because now they are feeling the lack. This is so much easier said than done though due to the sometimes painful heartache and longing to be with a person along with the fear of letting go thinking that if you do, it will be gone permanently, and sometimes it is gone permanently but whether you hold on or let go doesn't matter because it won't change the fact that it's permanently gone. These are just things I've learned along the way.

As far as readings and how they impact others or the relationship, I don't think it effects the other party personally unless they KNOW you're getting readings on them. That may make them feel uncomfortable etc. It also may plant seeds in their head and change their behavior if they're aware that you're getting readings on them. Better not to let them know. Outside of that, readings DO have an impact on US because if we get a reading and that psychic says there's a third party around or that they see one coming in, well our behavior is going to change within that relationship according to the information received from that psychic. It better be a damn good psychic or else that can destroy a relationship with potential. Having said all of this, if you find yourself having to call psychics because your POI is displaying confusing behavior, then it's probably not the right person for you to begin with.

The next man that I meet, I will not call a psychic about and should there come a day that I feel hesitation or confusion with said man, then that's my sign that he's not right for me. A healthy relationship with a genuine person will never make you feel hesitant or confused. Just more stuff that I learned along the way. Good luck to everyone!

russianred:

--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on March 23, 2020, 05:47:49 AM ---A couple of thoughts I have on this are as follows:

I do believe that everything is an energy. Therefore, whoever we are connected to, or not even in touch with, can feel when your energy is focused on them or not. And that is whether they are even consciously aware of it or not. That said, this is why it is said to LET GO of the situation/person and change your focus on something else. Letting go doesn't just mean going silent on a person, lying in wait for them to contact or something. It means energetically letting it go. When you do that, they can then feel that detachment and lack of your energy with them. THAT is when a "loss" or a "void" or a "feeling as though something is missing" feeling hits them. That is the ONLY time it will be felt. They may not be aware of exactly what it is they're feeling, but it's something that is suddenly "gone" from them. Why do you think it is that it always seems like when we're moved on to someone else, the ex or the previous POI pops back up? It's because now they are feeling the lack. This is so much easier said than done though due to the sometimes painful heartache and longing to be with a person along with the fear of letting go thinking that if you do, it will be gone permanently, and sometimes it is gone permanently but whether you hold on or let go doesn't matter because it won't change the fact that it's permanently gone. These are just things I've learned along the way.

--- End quote ---

So so so so true.  Every part of this -- that it cannot be forced but also that it is the way to having someone return if he intended to return anyway.  I like what you said about how if the person is gone permanently, he's gone permanently whether you hold on or not.

Sincity2:
I think they can definitely sense in a way when we are getting readings on them.

I’ve noticed every guy I’ve gotten a reading on has somehow changed on me, and not for the better, almost as if the readings have put a jinx on the whole situation. That’s why I will never get a reading on any future relationship.

Ninacy:
I agree with all the previous posters. If a person is an empath like you or emotionally sensitive especially, they may not be able to tell on a conscious level that you are having readings on them but they will feel that you are wondering about them subconsciously. Personally, I didn't exactly feel that someone was asking psychics about me, but I sensed that a guy in the past was doing some sort of spell work and remote seduction to seduce me--it definitely felt that something was off and that "I had to get physical with him" but it didn't feel natural.  At one point, I felt overwhelmed by these intruding energies and I literally wanted to puke...it was really unsettling but he realized at some point that I wasn't responding well and stopped.

They will also feel a void when you stop asking about them and will probably get back to you, not because they realized their mistakes and want to confess their undying love, but because they feel a void or in other words, a shift in the energy and their ego is wounded and seeks validation. Once they get it, 90% of the time they will switch back to their old ways and go cold on you again. This is often the case if your ex is a borderline, narcissistic or plain mentally unstable yet emotionally sensitive.   

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