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beachgal214:
This is something I am curious to get a dialogue going on and hear your perspectives and real life experiences if possible..

Anyone open to sharing their musing on what multiple psychic readings to do the poi, and how they can impact the flow of the relationship?

I would imagine, yes, they would drain them energetically - but to what extent?  do they know they are being read on (assume no) but do they feel that it is the caller (us) draining them and how do you think its felt?

another question I have is - say this does impact the relationship- this is something I go back and forth on and would love some other perspectives.  Part of me thinks yes these readings could impact the relationships energy and flow- however a lot of these relationships that are called on, or looked into, are challenging ones in that the POI is not giving clarity or consistency so we are seeking answers.  So to say the relationship would fare well without the calls is hard to imagine too.

anyway. just looking for people to share thoughts on how multiple readings can impact, to what extent, how much is too much on the POI and does it keep them hanging (conversely, does it keep us on their mind??).

My personal thoughts are - this is a topic that recently came to mind based on a post I read and I hadn't given it much thought until now so I am working it out in my head but I do believe it would drain them, and I do think it might keep them on the hook.

I am personally having a hard time letting go of a relationship that needs to be let go of and so I feel I probably keep him around minimally (not in a capacity that is supportive to me in anyway) but in a way that just keeps me hanging on. I am working to detach. But I feel the readings I get probably make him feel bound to me in some way but not in a way that hes going to actually change his ways, or be with me.  I think I am just mores on his mind or something. but not in a way that will make him change if that makes sense.

Letting go of this relationship has more to do with my own fear of not finding this connection (however toxic it is) with someone else.  I feel connected to him in such a strong way but at the same time I see how inconsistent he is with me and how I deserve so much more) but the actual soul level stuff was so much more than I have ever experienced.  strange.

anyway I went off on a tangent there but if anyone has any thoughts on how reading impact POI -id love to hear it!!!  the detachment stuff I am working on separately :)

russianred:
This is such a fascinating topic to me, and I hope that others will join in...

I know that if I feel that I'm starting to detach a bit mentally from POI and then get a reading, I find myself feeling right back in the same headspace of longing and hoping after the reading.

Can they feel that we're getting readings?  I don't know.  My gut tells me that maybe they can somehow feel a binge with just so much desperate energy being directed toward them...

I love your point about how we are often calling about complicated or challenging relationships anyway so it's hard to say that the readings are making it any more challenging than it already was.

I think that as we back away from readings it's a sign that we are ready to detach and THEN that detachment, if it's genuine, I think sometimes brings POIs back... like every action has an opposite reaction... so maybe it feels like putting an end to readings resulted in the POI's return when it was really about our own detachment.

Cranberry88:
I find this topic very interesting yet mysterious to an extend that we could possibly know 10% of whats really going on.
in my religion, getting a reading is something forbidden. However, due to some complications i have in life i ended up getting readings, one after the other which still isnt an excuse for me.
going back to the topic, i believe psychics does give u a "True" insight of whats going on but your reaction towards the reading might not necessarily fix things hence its always good to react naturally on incidents.
 
6 months back i had an excellent relationship with POI where i literally stopped readings completely, but out of curiosity i went to one of my top readers just to see what would happen next. 2 weeks later our relationship crashed down for a SILLY reason. we havent been talking now for more than a month. So yeah. that is something to be considered (atleast to me) 

russianred:

--- Quote from: Cranberry88 on February 23, 2020, 11:53:44 AM ---I find this topic very interesting yet mysterious to an extend that we could possibly know 10% of whats really going on.
in my religion, getting a reading is something forbidden. However, due to some complications i have in life i ended up getting readings, one after the other which still isnt an excuse for me.
going back to the topic, i believe psychics does give u a "True" insight of whats going on but your reaction towards the reading might not necessarily fix things hence its always good to react naturally on incidents.
 
6 months back i had an excellent relationship with POI where i literally stopped readings completely, but out of curiosity i went to one of my top readers just to see what would happen next. 2 weeks later our relationship crashed down for a SILLY reason. we havent been talking now for more than a month. So yeah. that is something to be considered (atleast to me)

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Thanks for sharing your story.

You know, I don't know if I even truly believe in psychic ability, but you brought out a good point about how I do think that sometimes these readers can give us a more objective perspective on our situation.

Playing devil's advocate for a second -- did you seek out that reading just out of total curiosity or did you get an intuitive sense on some level that things weren't going right?  If it was more the latter, the breakup might have been more of a manifestation of that already existing energy than anything having to do with the psychic.  But, again... who knows.

This is a fascinating topic.  All I know for sure is that it's better for my own mental health to get spaced out and planned readings.

SarahM:
Yup this is something i always wondered about as well. Can the other person "feel" anything when we're constantly getting readings about them? This is unfortunately one of those things that we'll never get an answer to lol...

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