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KarinaR:
Hi everyone! Like many users have mentioned I have been lurking on this forum for a while but just recently started posting about my own experiences. I wanted to post my own personal story and journey with psychics in hopes of venting and also hopefully helping anyone in my shoes...

I got my first reading on keen in 2012 after a very hurtful breakup. I wanted to know if this man would ever return. The first reader sold me a fairytale “he’s your soulmate” he will be back and will marry you. He’s losing sleep over you etc...

I read with almost every reader in keen within the first 5 pages and almost 10k later.... no return. He was actually happy with another woman and I was naive enough to think that maybe if I asked about her I would get more clarity... some readers told me they would not last, that she had done witchcraft and that he would come back to me.

Fast forward to 2018 they are now married with a child and none of my predictions panned out in that scenario.

I had given up readings for about a year and in 2014 I met another guy who seemed to be wishy washy and I got trapped into the psychic binge after finally paying off my previous debt. I went back and started reading with multiple readers. Then one reader recommended queen of cups to me so I tried her. She told me there was another woman interfering, that he was dealing with a change of residence and would move etc... I was devastated and it was obviously not what I wanted to hear. Well this all happened to be true and shortly after I learned from him that he had been fired from his residency and he had to move to Canada. He denied any other women except she ended up confronting me in person.

I deleted my keen account.

Then in 2016 again I started calling about work. I found some psychics who really knocked it out of the park with my work predictions: Journey Ryan, readings by charlie. I found bitwine and started messaging with anette Marie, Analisa and Michelle rose. Most of them gave positive work predictions. The only two that said I would be finding a new job we’re Journey and Charlie on keen... I ended up leaving my job and finding a new position higher than my previous...

I stopped talking to psychics for a while.

2018 came around and I started dating a man who ghosted me. I had yet another binge. Most people said he would come back etc... Charlie had said it could be a while but he saw a reconnection. Journey said he would be back but it wouldn’t be a long term situation. So what happened a year later this man resurfaced and I started another binge on readings... sigh.... this was a short lived reconnection.

Then I met a wonderful man (so I thought) and everything was going perfect up until the holidays when he started becoming distant and pulling away. I took to bitwine and read with everyone and anyone mentioned on this site... many predicted I’d marry this man, he’s my twin flame and we will be engaged or married within a year. This all sounded wonderful so I started getting more readings for validation... we had a fight and disconnected altogether then started trying to patch things up with me doing most of the work of course. Continued to read with the psychics that told me he would marry me... many have now said “free will” or life is too much for him to handle etc... some have flat out told me to get on dating apps or simply just given generic advice. Charlie told me he would come back but i won’t want him when he does (sigh) queen of cups was a straight up jerk and told me to stop wasting my time on someone who doesn’t want me and Journey said that he will come back when he realizes the meaning of our connection.

I have tried the following bitwine readers:
Love psychic Ashley... was correct on timing for a lot of things did not predict the breakup. As of last reading he’s still the man I marry
Autumn river- he will be back, will be engaged but couldn’t see far out to a marriage with him because he has back and forth behaviors that will piss me off in the long run
Miranda autumn- first was like this is a guy you should only get involved if you’re serious now he’s a commitmentphobe
Sophea- man was going to marry me. By December we would be official... we started having issues.
Angel readings- will be slow to develop and if I try to rush it we will break up but get back together. I would learn that he was not who he painted himself to be and things would end
James M. Don’t even know aboit this guy he tells me all kinds of stuff about the cards and that we have a solid foundation... no real predictions he said that tarot cards don’t predict the future
Miss Ann- so far her monthly wheel thing has been accurate but the poi I have previously asked about was incorrect. The opposite happened. I have not asked her about my more recent poi.
Domine Candrews- can’t connect
Marcelo- this is your soulmate I get the sun card without a doubt things will be in your favor
Avalon Star- you will be together and things will turn around... when asked aboit long term- disconnected on me then blocked me
Angela shadows: you will get back together and get married
Draven Gray: not sure what his prediction was because he wrote 2.5 large paragraphs telling me what the obstacles were... his uncertainty and the retrograde that at that time had not yet started
Effie K- lol I am embarrassed to share what she said and don’t want to give them clues to find me later but she was soooo off
Lady Jade- I have read with her  to know she’s fake
Clara refunded me
Spirit messages wasn’t sure that he was coming back? Didn’t give me a response said that the energy was too scattered and that she saw other men around me I may be more interested in
Angel mystress- he will be back in a few weeks and apologize for his behavior
Toria- he will be back

readers I have not tried... cookie, yona, Mattie, Beverly Ann.

I feel pretty discouraged and 5K in debt. I know that a year hasn’t passed yet since my readings but after reading many of the posts here I feel like many of us go through similar cycles and most readers only pick up on the current energy. I also believe that readings cause psychic blocks in our lives... I started having issues with this last guy once I started getting readings to confirm if he was or wasn’t the one...

I am now trying my hardest to cut myself off from psychics and take things a day at a time

Thank you for reading!

bee.23:
Thank you for sharing your story! I just also posted "my story," if you'd like to read. Maybe reading mine will help console you in that you are not alone! I couldn't agree more with your theory. But you seem to have been doing this run-around for quite the longer while (off-and-on) in comparison to my 1 year. Truthfully, it's tempting to get readings, but un-healthy when it turns into an addiction that energetically and emotionally drains you... as well as a financial block. To be fed false hope while emotionally vulnerable is one of the worse kinds of human treatment, and I am realizing now that distancing ourselves from this reality is probably a much healthier life choice, than trying to understand things that maybe we shouldn't bother considering (i.e. how he or she feels, whats going on, what will happen) It creates and circulates so much anxiety, and that's not how life is meant to unfold. but the problem is how to stop?? Really is an addiction, and I am here to support you in your journey, and anyone else's. PM me if you ever need to talk, I am an open space of non-judgement

bee.23:

--- Quote from: KarinaR on February 18, 2020, 10:38:54 PM ---Hi everyone! Like many users have mentioned I have been lurking on this forum for a while but just recently started posting about my own experiences. I wanted to post my own personal story and journey with psychics in hopes of venting and also hopefully helping anyone in my shoes...

I got my first reading on keen in 2012 after a very hurtful breakup. I wanted to know if this man would ever return. The first reader sold me a fairytale “he’s your soulmate” he will be back and will marry you. He’s losing sleep over you etc...

I read with almost every reader in keen within the first 5 pages and almost 10k later.... no return. He was actually happy with another woman and I was naive enough to think that maybe if I asked about her I would get more clarity... some readers told me they would not last, that she had done witchcraft and that he would come back to me.

Fast forward to 2018 they are now married with a child and none of my predictions panned out in that scenario.

I had given up readings for about a year and in 2014 I met another guy who seemed to be wishy washy and I got trapped into the psychic binge after finally paying off my previous debt. I went back and started reading with multiple readers. Then one reader recommended queen of cups to me so I tried her. She told me there was another woman interfering, that he was dealing with a change of residence and would move etc... I was devastated and it was obviously not what I wanted to hear. Well this all happened to be true and shortly after I learned from him that he had been fired from his residency and he had to move to Canada. He denied any other women except she ended up confronting me in person.

I deleted my keen account.

Then in 2016 again I started calling about work. I found some psychics who really knocked it out of the park with my work predictions: Journey Ryan, readings by charlie. I found bitwine and started messaging with anette Marie, Analisa and Michelle rose. Most of them gave positive work predictions. The only two that said I would be finding a new job we’re Journey and Charlie on keen... I ended up leaving my job and finding a new position higher than my previous...

I stopped talking to psychics for a while.

2018 came around and I started dating a man who ghosted me. I had yet another binge. Most people said he would come back etc... Charlie had said it could be a while but he saw a reconnection. Journey said he would be back but it wouldn’t be a long term situation. So what happened a year later this man resurfaced and I started another binge on readings... sigh.... this was a short lived reconnection.

Then I met a wonderful man (so I thought) and everything was going perfect up until the holidays when he started becoming distant and pulling away. I took to bitwine and read with everyone and anyone mentioned on this site... many predicted I’d marry this man, he’s my twin flame and we will be engaged or married within a year. This all sounded wonderful so I started getting more readings for validation... we had a fight and disconnected altogether then started trying to patch things up with me doing most of the work of course. Continued to read with the psychics that told me he would marry me... many have now said “free will” or life is too much for him to handle etc... some have flat out told me to get on dating apps or simply just given generic advice. Charlie told me he would come back but i won’t want him when he does (sigh) queen of cups was a straight up jerk and told me to stop wasting my time on someone who doesn’t want me and Journey said that he will come back when he realizes the meaning of our connection.

I have tried the following bitwine readers:
Love psychic Ashley... was correct on timing for a lot of things did not predict the breakup. As of last reading he’s still the man I marry
Autumn river- he will be back, will be engaged but couldn’t see far out to a marriage with him because he has back and forth behaviors that will piss me off in the long run
Miranda autumn- first was like this is a guy you should only get involved if you’re serious now he’s a commitmentphobe
Sophea- man was going to marry me. By December we would be official... we started having issues.
Angel readings- will be slow to develop and if I try to rush it we will break up but get back together. I would learn that he was not who he painted himself to be and things would end
James M. Don’t even know aboit this guy he tells me all kinds of stuff about the cards and that we have a solid foundation... no real predictions he said that tarot cards don’t predict the future
Miss Ann- so far her monthly wheel thing has been accurate but the poi I have previously asked about was incorrect. The opposite happened. I have not asked her about my more recent poi.
Domine Candrews- can’t connect
Marcelo- this is your soulmate I get the sun card without a doubt things will be in your favor
Avalon Star- you will be together and things will turn around... when asked aboit long term- disconnected on me then blocked me
Angela shadows: you will get back together and get married
Draven Gray: not sure what his prediction was because he wrote 2.5 large paragraphs telling me what the obstacles were... his uncertainty and the retrograde that at that time had not yet started
Effie K- lol I am embarrassed to share what she said and don’t want to give them clues to find me later but she was soooo off
Lady Jade- I have read with her  to know she’s fake
Clara refunded me
Spirit messages wasn’t sure that he was coming back? Didn’t give me a response said that the energy was too scattered and that she saw other men around me I may be more interested in
Angel mystress- he will be back in a few weeks and apologize for his behavior
Toria- he will be back

readers I have not tried... cookie, yona, Mattie, Beverly Ann.

I feel pretty discouraged and 5K in debt. I know that a year hasn’t passed yet since my readings but after reading many of the posts here I feel like many of us go through similar cycles and most readers only pick up on the current energy. I also believe that readings cause psychic blocks in our lives... I started having issues with this last guy once I started getting readings to confirm if he was or wasn’t the one...

I am now trying my hardest to cut myself off from psychics and take things a day at a time

Thank you for reading!

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It seems like Charlie and Queen of Cups 18 have been most accurate with you in the past, I would stick to the readers you know work. Sooooooo many readers feed false hopes , ecspecially on kasamba and keen. Also, have you read with Hilary80, Miss Ann, Mike Pace, or Love Expert Sara before? were they right or wrong?

pfizer:
Queen of Cups was accurate in the past then i will just stick with her.

KarinaR:

--- Quote from: bee.23 on February 19, 2020, 05:57:26 AM ---Thank you for sharing your story! I just also posted "my story," if you'd like to read. Maybe reading mine will help console you in that you are not alone! I couldn't agree more with your theory. But you seem to have been doing this run-around for quite the longer while (off-and-on) in comparison to my 1 year. Truthfully, it's tempting to get readings, but un-healthy when it turns into an addiction that energetically and emotionally drains you... as well as a financial block. To be fed false hope while emotionally vulnerable is one of the worse kinds of human treatment, and I am realizing now that distancing ourselves from this reality is probably a much healthier life choice, than trying to understand things that maybe we shouldn't bother considering (i.e. how he or she feels, whats going on, what will happen) It creates and circulates so much anxiety, and that's not how life is meant to unfold. but the problem is how to stop?? Really is an addiction, and I am here to support you in your journey, and anyone else's. PM me if you ever need to talk, I am an open space of non-judgement

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Thank you Bee! I could use all of the emotional support I can get at the moment. Thank you for your kind words I will be looking for your story and reading. I feel like it is an absolute addiction and I also feel that I know enough to know that only a handful of the love reading predictions have come to pass. A lot of the stuff I have been fed by these readers are in fact false hope. Even when I have told them we are no longer in contact they say it’s not permanent or it’s “not even in the cards as a real split!” I do feel they say these things and then will add the connection is so strong that he will be back etc.. I’ve heard it all honestly. The only thing that helps me stop is deleting my accounts focusing on work and taking trips out of the country so I don’t have access to keen or bitwine... extreme measures. I have been considering therapy


Also of the 3 you mentioned I have read with miss Ann. Her wheel of fortune has been pretty spot on for me in the past for certain months. If she predicts chaos or negativity that month she’s usually correct. She has predicted unexpected travel for me and emotional shut downs in the past that we’re accurate. However my experience with her specific  questions/ readings have never been that great. She predicted once that the man I was talking to felt like I would cheat on him with someone in my office who was younger. He ended up cheating on me with someone younger in his office... so I’ve had those kind of weird situations where she says one thing but it’s wrong. She also said this client would be trying to take me to court over something in paperwork....sigh I ended up taking a client to court for missed payments. So she definitely has a gift but I feel with some people she misses the situation altogether.

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