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KarinaR:
--- Quote from: pfizer on February 19, 2020, 08:39:34 AM ---Queen of Cups was accurate in the past then i will just stick with her.
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Ann definitely is gifted and I believe she was so much better in the past. My last reading with her she didn’t read anything just told me to stop wasting my time on a man who isn’t putting in effort and that it’s Saturday night and I should be making plans to go out instead of calling psychics to find out how a man is feeling about me and if he’s coming back :(
She used to be more detailed and informative in my opinion but I was put off by her attitude this past time.
russianred:
--- Quote from: KarinaR on February 19, 2020, 01:49:29 PM ---Thank you Bee! I could use all of the emotional support I can get at the moment. Thank you for your kind words I will be looking for your story and reading. I feel like it is an absolute addiction and I also feel that I know enough to know that only a handful of the love reading predictions have come to pass. A lot of the stuff I have been fed by these readers are in fact false hope. Even when I have told them we are no longer in contact they say it’s not permanent or it’s “not even in the cards as a real split!” I do feel they say these things and then will add the connection is so strong that he will be back etc.. I’ve heard it all honestly. The only thing that helps me stop is deleting my accounts focusing on work and taking trips out of the country so I don’t have access to keen or bitwine... extreme measures.
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Thanks for sharing your story. It is like an addiction for sure. Any objective outsider would say why keep calling after they have been proven wrong in your own life (not just the lives of others) so many times, but it's like telling a compulsive gambler that the house will always win in the end.
I think that if you can find 1-2 people who somehow soothe your heart and emotions, it can be worth it if the readings are not too frequent. I agree that frequent readings on the same person can somehow mess with the energy of the relationship.
I had a similar situation with QOC where I genuinely didn't understand what she was trying to tell me but she gave me an attitude and refused to clarify. I dunno. These readings are expensive enough, I don't pay to be insulted, accurate or not.
I am so sorry to hear about your debt.
bee.23:
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--- Quote from: bee.23 on February 19, 2020, 05:57:26 AM ---Thank you for sharing your story! I just also posted "my story," if you'd like to read. Maybe reading mine will help console you in that you are not alone! I couldn't agree more with your theory. But you seem to have been doing this run-around for quite the longer while (off-and-on) in comparison to my 1 year. Truthfully, it's tempting to get readings, but un-healthy when it turns into an addiction that energetically and emotionally drains you... as well as a financial block. To be fed false hope while emotionally vulnerable is one of the worse kinds of human treatment, and I am realizing now that distancing ourselves from this reality is probably a much healthier life choice, than trying to understand things that maybe we shouldn't bother considering (i.e. how he or she feels, whats going on, what will happen) It creates and circulates so much anxiety, and that's not how life is meant to unfold. but the problem is how to stop?? Really is an addiction, and I am here to support you in your journey, and anyone else's. PM me if you ever need to talk, I am an open space of non-judgement
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Thank you Bee! I could use all of the emotional support I can get at the moment. Thank you for your kind words I will be looking for your story and reading. I feel like it is an absolute addiction and I also feel that I know enough to know that only a handful of the love reading predictions have come to pass. A lot of the stuff I have been fed by these readers are in fact false hope. Even when I have told them we are no longer in contact they say it’s not permanent or it’s “not even in the cards as a real split!” I do feel they say these things and then will add the connection is so strong that he will be back etc.. I’ve heard it all honestly. The only thing that helps me stop is deleting my accounts focusing on work and taking trips out of the country so I don’t have access to keen or bitwine... extreme measures. I have been considering therapy
Also of the 3 you mentioned I have read with miss Ann. Her wheel of fortune has been pretty spot on for me in the past for certain months. If she predicts chaos or negativity that month she’s usually correct. She has predicted unexpected travel for me and emotional shut downs in the past that we’re accurate. However my experience with her specific questions/ readings have never been that great. She predicted once that the man I was talking to felt like I would cheat on him with someone in my office who was younger. He ended up cheating on me with someone younger in his office... so I’ve had those kind of weird situations where she says one thing but it’s wrong. She also said this client would be trying to take me to court over something in paperwork....sigh I ended up taking a client to court for missed payments. So she definitely has a gift but I feel with some people she misses the situation altogether.
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Awww girl, I 100% feel you. Extreme measures is the only way I quit things as well. I agree trips elsewhere are a great idea because that actually adds value to your life, and provides you life experience. Psychisim, predictions, obsessing only keeps one with anxiety, drained, and confused. Ultimately, whats meant to be will be. We have to trust that and know no psychic can change or determine what is fated. That is my belief, but my curiosity and emotions keep hindering me from what I know I need to do to reach my highest self. Regarding Miss Ann, I think the information was coming through, but things can get misinterpreted by reader. Like not 100% wrong in that, the information was there, but it was just with reversed roles. Stephanie Theresa predicted my POI and I would break shorty after reconciliation, but Miss Ann said him and I would last-long term. Both seem to be reputable readers based off of what I have read on this forum, and I just do not know what to believe anymore. The confusion is emotionally and energetically draining. The only time I find clarity and peace is when I am living my life, and allowing things to be as is, free of readings and that trap. And.... STAYING IN CONTROL OF MY EMOTIONS. Primarily.
KarinaR:
Thank you for your kind words. It’s definitely been a long journey and the psychic addiction is so real. I feel like there’s no one to talk to about it because to most people it would seem so irrational or out of character. I feel like I would be labeled crazy or something for mentioning my psychic addiction to be honest. I think this forum was a great idea to whoever started it. It’s really helpful to see we are not alone and so many of us are in the same place with our psychic journey. Some things I have learned along the way;
1) tarot is an imprint of the current situation and rarely is able to predict the future even with really advanced readers.sometimes things that are too far into motion do come up in readings like meeting someone on your path, getting the job etc.. this is usually because the decision has been made on the other persons behalf so it will happen.
2) the more expensive readers are often cold readers and they will google you to figure out who you are
3) sometimes empaths can mix up energies if your poi has another person. This has happened to me multiple times along the way
4) some psychics connect better with certain people... I think this may be related to the astrological charts influencing the connection
5) I’m not sure if this is true but keen posts your sign and dob to the readers so sometimes they will surprise you and say “are you a libra because that’s how you’re coming up to me” totally pulling to make you relate and feel like they’re reading.
6) last time of contact... if they’re asking this they’re most definitely trying to cold read
7) some of these readers are also paranoid that clients are going to leave negative feedback or affect them energetically so they can create psychic blocks for the clients now that you have given them access to your energy field..
8) I do think that the other party who is being inquired about is thrown off balance and drained from constant inquiry into their energy. I think this creates confusion and somewhat encourages them to move away further from the relationship because it feels draining.
SarahM:
--- Quote from: KarinaR on February 21, 2020, 03:42:23 AM ---Thank you for your kind words. It’s definitely been a long journey and the psychic addiction is so real. I feel like there’s no one to talk to about it because to most people it would seem so irrational or out of character. I feel like I would be labeled crazy or something for mentioning my psychic addiction to be honest. I think this forum was a great idea to whoever started it. It’s really helpful to see we are not alone and so many of us are in the same place with our psychic journey. Some things I have learned along the way;
1) tarot is an imprint of the current situation and rarely is able to predict the future even with really advanced readers.sometimes things that are too far into motion do come up in readings like meeting someone on your path, getting the job etc.. this is usually because the decision has been made on the other persons behalf so it will happen.
2) the more expensive readers are often cold readers and they will google you to figure out who you are
3) sometimes empaths can mix up energies if your poi has another person. This has happened to me multiple times along the way
4) some psychics connect better with certain people... I think this may be related to the astrological charts influencing the connection
5) I’m not sure if this is true but keen posts your sign and dob to the readers so sometimes they will surprise you and say “are you a libra because that’s how you’re coming up to me” totally pulling to make you relate and feel like they’re reading.
6) last time of contact... if they’re asking this they’re most definitely trying to cold read
7) some of these readers are also paranoid that clients are going to leave negative feedback or affect them energetically so they can create psychic blocks for the clients now that you have given them access to your energy field..
8) I do think that the other party who is being inquired about is thrown off balance and drained from constant inquiry into their energy. I think this creates confusion and somewhat encourages them to move away further from the relationship because it feels draining.
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Just out of curiosity, what do you mean by "psychic block"?
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