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Could really use your guys support right now...
ferney456:
My frank harsh advise would be to stop spending another dime on getting readings for this guy.
I'm sure you're a wonderful girl and a great catch that definitely DOES NOT deserve to give someone 5 years only for them to go off with someone else, come back then go back to that person again.
Cry it out, then hold your head up high, brush it off, focus on hobbies and a social life to keep yourself busy and see how more positive people gravitate towards you when you give off that energy yourself.
Hold yourself in a much higher place than what you are right now because this guy is NOT worth it and when you move on and become happier again you will come across the right one.
I'm really sorry you've gone through this- utter BS it makes me so mad.
bee.23:
--- Quote from: ferney456 on February 18, 2020, 06:28:20 PM ---My frank harsh advise would be to stop spending another dime on getting readings for this guy.
I'm sure you're a wonderful girl and a great catch that definitely DOES NOT deserve to give someone 5 years only for them to go off with someone else, come back then go back to that person again.
Cry it out, then hold your head up high, brush it off, focus on hobbies and a social life to keep yourself busy and see how more positive people gravitate towards you when you give off that energy yourself.
Hold yourself in a much higher place than what you are right now because this guy is NOT worth it and when you move on and become happier again you will come across the right one.
I'm really sorry you've gone through this- utter BS it makes me so mad.
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Thank you truly for these kinds words!! You’ve uplifted my entire day and put things in perspective for me. It’s just challenging, after 5 years, to let go of someone. But time will orchestrate my future and I am trusting universe that I will gravitate to the life that is meant for me, eventually
russianred:
--- Quote from: bee.23 on February 18, 2020, 02:30:44 PM ---I believe in you ❤️ Always here to speak, if you need an ear (from a stranger, granted lol)
Do you feel like speaking to psychics has helped you through the process or made things more emotionally draining for you? And do you think there is any authenticity to any of the readers that you’ve read with, or all false hope?
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Thank you! I feel like readings drained me and kept me from detaching from the situation. I also feel like it's caused me a lot of anxiety due to the money I spent during binges.
To be honest, I don't feel like I've been given totally false hope. It's the type of situation where any objective observer would conclude that there's a decent shot of this working out. But I do think that most readers just reflect your energy when you call. Authentic psychic ability? I've only felt that one person (Zadalia) was able to describe my situation in such a way that seems to evince some real ability. I've been given some good insight from other readers too, but I'm not convinced of the psychic ability of anyone else I've read with... I don't think you have to be to give insight into a situation. I just wish I hadn't spent so much money.
ferney456:
--- Quote from: bee.23 on February 18, 2020, 09:13:36 PM ---
--- Quote from: ferney456 on February 18, 2020, 06:28:20 PM ---My frank harsh advise would be to stop spending another dime on getting readings for this guy.
I'm sure you're a wonderful girl and a great catch that definitely DOES NOT deserve to give someone 5 years only for them to go off with someone else, come back then go back to that person again.
Cry it out, then hold your head up high, brush it off, focus on hobbies and a social life to keep yourself busy and see how more positive people gravitate towards you when you give off that energy yourself.
Hold yourself in a much higher place than what you are right now because this guy is NOT worth it and when you move on and become happier again you will come across the right one.
I'm really sorry you've gone through this- utter BS it makes me so mad.
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Thank you truly for these kinds words!! You’ve uplifted my entire day and put things in perspective for me. It’s just challenging, after 5 years, to let go of someone. But time will orchestrate my future and I am trusting universe that I will gravitate to the life that is meant for me, eventually
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I always used to think like you. i put x number of years in so I want it to work... but then I started thinking I put x number of years and I have nothing to show for it... I could have walked away a long time ago... I cant waste another day on this because for me I wanted a marriage a family etc and I was getting older. That helped me make things more logical than emotional.
pfizer:
--- Quote from: bee.23 on February 18, 2020, 01:04:11 PM ---
--- Quote from: pfizer on February 18, 2020, 11:52:10 AM ---now, its not about reading and that 600..
it's about, do you really want to be with someone who abandoned you then tried to come back?
do u still trust him?
i wont.
i wouldnt put myself in that situation 2nd time
it's ok to break up but not this way
he is simply not decent
and you deserved someone way BETTER.
once you let go of him completely, your life will turn 180 degree; only gets better. trust me.
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Sorry if I didn’t word things 100%. Well, we broke up and then a few months later he began to date this other person, so not necessarily abandoned me. We just broke up and he moved on. He has been quite confused since and suffers from bipolar disorder so his emotions are eratic, I think more recently hes been torn between 2 or undecided, per say, but you are right. Thank you for this advice and support it is deffinitely noted
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maybe you should just move on
and honestly it's not very wise to be with someone who has mental disorder(no matter which type), it's going to drain you till forever.
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