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Could really use your guys support right now...
bee.23:
--- Quote from: russianred on February 18, 2020, 12:53:18 PM ---I'm so sorry to read all of this. I will say that this man sounds incredibly selfish (which I think many POIs have in common). But I also know that you can know that yet still long to be with someone.
Do you truly feel that you are supposed to be with this man? Will he make you feel loved and secure?
I also think your readings now being negative shows that most readers will base their predictions based on whatever energy you are bringing to the reading.
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It’s very true, a lot of the POIS I’ve read about seem to share that in common. And I feel knowing there’s more loving connections to have out here than the experience we’ve gone thru, and remaining anyways, is more so a heart-head disconnect. Yes I think maybe they might be reading on my fears, emotionally drained energy, binges etc. not a wholesome energetic space to be in.. but only time will tell the outcome of all this as things start to manifest. I’ve slept on it and re-grouped and going to put a distance with readings for awhile and flow. Let life manifest and try to stay afloat above the emotions. Also sorry! as I stated to the previous user^^^^ my POI didn’t necessarily abandon me, we broke up and a few months later he just began to date someone else. I have a full story about my experience and my history with psychics that I will be posting soon. Stay tuned, and I can enlighten you on my story :)
russianred:
--- Quote from: bee.23 on February 18, 2020, 01:12:44 PM ---
--- Quote from: russianred on February 18, 2020, 12:53:18 PM ---I'm so sorry to read all of this. I will say that this man sounds incredibly selfish (which I think many POIs have in common). But I also know that you can know that yet still long to be with someone.
Do you truly feel that you are supposed to be with this man? Will he make you feel loved and secure?
I also think your readings now being negative shows that most readers will base their predictions based on whatever energy you are bringing to the reading.
--- End quote ---
It’s very true, a lot of the POIS I’ve read about seem to share that in common. And I feel knowing there’s more loving connections to have out here than the experience we’ve gone thru, and remaining anyways, is more so a heart-head disconnect. Yes I think maybe they might be reading on my fears, emotionally drained energy, binges etc. not a wholesome energetic space to be in.. but only time will tell the outcome of all this as things start to manifest. I’ve slept on it and re-grouped and going to put a distance with readings for awhile and flow. Let life manifest and try to stay afloat above the emotions. Also sorry! as I stated to the previous user^^^^ my POI didn’t necessarily abandon me, we broke up and a few months later he just began to date someone else. I have a full story about my experience and my history with psychics that I will be posting soon. Stay tuned, and I can enlighten you on my story :)
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I empathize with how difficult the situation is for you. I'm dealing with a similar thing myself -- "confused" (as you wrote above) and indecisive POI which results in me and you not knowing where we stand. It feels demeaning, like watching him decide which of us to pick. ::) It also makes it tougher when POI says that he loves you but then his actions seem to indicate something else.
Yes, it's best that we try to detach ourselves from these situations the best that we can. I've been working on that for a month and a half now. I'm trying to not feel desperate for his return and tell myself that I only want him to return if he is willing and ready to make me a priority, and I'm not sure that he even has that ability.
bee.23:
--- Quote from: russianred on February 18, 2020, 01:16:18 PM ---
--- Quote from: bee.23 on February 18, 2020, 01:12:44 PM ---
--- Quote from: russianred on February 18, 2020, 12:53:18 PM ---I'm so sorry to read all of this. I will say that this man sounds incredibly selfish (which I think many POIs have in common). But I also know that you can know that yet still long to be with someone.
Do you truly feel that you are supposed to be with this man? Will he make you feel loved and secure?
I also think your readings now being negative shows that most readers will base their predictions based on whatever energy you are bringing to the reading.
--- End quote ---
It’s very true, a lot of the POIS I’ve read about seem to share that in common. And I feel knowing there’s more loving connections to have out here than the experience we’ve gone thru, and remaining anyways, is more so a heart-head disconnect. Yes I think maybe they might be reading on my fears, emotionally drained energy, binges etc. not a wholesome energetic space to be in.. but only time will tell the outcome of all this as things start to manifest. I’ve slept on it and re-grouped and going to put a distance with readings for awhile and flow. Let life manifest and try to stay afloat above the emotions. Also sorry! as I stated to the previous user^^^^ my POI didn’t necessarily abandon me, we broke up and a few months later he just began to date someone else. I have a full story about my experience and my history with psychics that I will be posting soon. Stay tuned, and I can enlighten you on my story :)
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I empathize with how difficult the situation is for you. I'm dealing with a similar thing myself -- "confused" (as you wrote above) and indecisive POI which results in me and you not knowing where we stand. It feels demeaning, like watching him decide which of us to pick. ::) It also makes it tougher when POI says that he loves you but then his actions seem to indicate something else.
Yes, it's best that we try to detach ourselves from these situations the best that we can. I've been working on that for a month and a half now. I'm trying to not feel desperate for his return and tell myself that I only want him to return if he is willing and ready to make me a priority, and I'm not sure that he even has that ability.
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I believe in you ❤️ Always here to speak, if you need an ear (from a stranger, granted lol)
Do you feel like speaking to psychics has helped you through the process or made things more emotionally draining for you? And do you think there is any authenticity to any of the readers that you’ve read with, or all false hope?
fashiondiva6337:
Hi Bee
So im not sure what others think about this, but if you are in a bad place emotionally, you shouldn't be getting readings when your emotions are high. Yes, many of us have done this myself included, but I also know that when emotions are high it can sway the reading. I was actually told this by an advisor. She told me never to get a reading when my emotions were high or I didn't feel grounded because it would reflect more my fears than what was actually occurring.
I know many people have said that you deserve someone better, but more importantly you deserve to be HAPPY.
bee.23:
--- Quote from: fashiondiva6337 on February 18, 2020, 03:17:06 PM ---Hi Bee
So im not sure what others think about this, but if you are in a bad place emotionally, you shouldn't be getting readings when your emotions are high. Yes, many of us have done this myself included, but I also know that when emotions are high it can sway the reading. I was actually told this by an advisor. She told me never to get a reading when my emotions were high or I didn't feel grounded because it would reflect more my fears than what was actually occurring.
I know many people have said that you deserve someone better, but more importantly you deserve to be HAPPY.
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Thanks kindly for this insight. I felt maybe my emotions could energetically alter a reading, but never heard anyone say it until now, so thanks for that clarification. I do deserve to be happy
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