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What do I do???
Cteebaby1:
Or when they say you will get contact and you do but it’s just not what you expect. I always got contact in the correct timing just nothing came of it or it was just arguments 😪
Love2lovenj:
Honestly I would just keep living your life. If he contacts you then he contacts you but don't put your life on hold because of the possibility.
If he does contact you, what are you hoping to gain from it? Would you like to reestablish your relationship? It is odd that things ended with no warning between you two. Sorry i just read your initial post so forgive me if i missed anything.
Ash1234567:
He also asked me to move in with him the day before he dumped me. I dunno I guess I just want to hear from him, not looking to gain a lot, just wanting closure at the most.
ES1281:
--- Quote from: Ash1234567 on January 18, 2020, 05:45:30 AM ---He also asked me to move in with him the day before he dumped me. I dunno I guess I just want to hear from him, not looking to gain a lot, just wanting closure at the most.
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Hi Ash
I'm so sorry for what happened in your life.
If my understanding is right, he didn't tell you why he wanted to break up and you want to know the reason right?
if so did you contact him and say you need a closure, you want to know why.
If he will give you the answer then good you'll have some sort of conversation.
If not it's a red flag.
And honestly he broke up with you the day after he asked you to move in, is a huge red flag.
Ash1234567:
Well when he did nothing made any sense, one of the reasons was I didn’t open a gate? I tried just asking how he was and it took 4 days for a reply. I never asked for closure because I thought he would come running back and tell me. It’s too late for me to initiate contact and ask.
--- Quote from: ES1281 on January 18, 2020, 05:51:31 AM ---
--- Quote from: Ash1234567 on January 18, 2020, 05:45:30 AM ---He also asked me to move in with him the day before he dumped me. I dunno I guess I just want to hear from him, not looking to gain a lot, just wanting closure at the most.
--- End quote ---
Hi Ash
I'm so sorry for what happened in your life.
If my understanding is right, he didn't tell you why he wanted to break up and you want to know the reason right?
if so did you contact him and say you need a closure, you want to know why.
If he will give you the answer then good you'll have some sort of conversation.
If not it's a red flag.
And honestly he broke up with you the day after he asked you to move in, is a huge red flag.
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