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He came back... and left again

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njlady:

--- Quote from: Girly1998 on December 22, 2019, 02:46:35 PM ---He didn’t come back on his own though :( even though he “missed” me he didn’t try to reach out even once. This is the first time he actually blocked my number and I don’t know what to do

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Do nothing except for move on.  He's a giant man baby who doesn't know how to use his words to communicate.  He wants to quasi-punish you and make you feel helpless at the same time instead.  Do you want to have this happen over & over?  Do not apologize.  He's into he punishes while you grovel and beg for his forgiveness instead of talking it out like two adults. That is not a healthy dynamic. 

Think about it.  What if you got stranded or in an accident and couldn't reach your family/friends and only had him ... but giant man baby has weaponized social media and his iphone to block you.  Believe me, you do not want to keep it going with this man. 

Yaz88:

--- Quote from: Girly1998 on February 06, 2020, 01:36:20 AM ---He came back after this and it happened 2 more times... y’all I’m absolutely exhausted.

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I’m sorry Girly.  The cycle is emotionally exhausting.

SomethingBetter:

--- Quote from: Girly1998 on February 06, 2020, 01:45:57 AM ---He loves to give the silent treatment and then block me on everything. This is a man who went out house shopping when he realized his parents would be a problem (young, still at home) and then the next week ghosted me because I didn’t hug him before going home.

This time around I’m blocked because I expressed how my feeling were hurt due to him “forgetting” to text me back.

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He sounds like he had major issues. I’m sorry you’re hurt.

If you decide to stick it out I hope it gets better. If you decided to move along I’m sure you’ll find much better.

Hugs, I’ve been there myself.

Love2lovenj:
Girly i am so sorry you are going thru these cycles.  I totally get it.  I don't know what they think they solve by giving the silent treatment.  I honestly feel its their way of sweeping things under the rug because i guarantee when they come back they act like it never happened.  Its frustrating as hell.  Just do you girl.  Unfortunately they always come back if you allow it and don't nip things in the bud.

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