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He came back... and left again
Girly1998:
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Yaz88:
--- Quote from: Girly1998 on December 22, 2019, 02:36:27 PM ---My ex of 6 months came back about a month ago- I reached out to him and he confirmed my intuition of how I thought he was feeling. But , he’s gone again. Completely ghosted me and blocked me due to a tiny argument 2 days ago. I’m completely lost right now.
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Something tells me he will be back again. Unfortunately, I don’t think he’s very emotionally mature, so that won’t be easy to deal with at all. Hang in there, focus on you, and just live your life. I’m not sure if you will want him when he comes back, but he will be back.
Fidget1028:
--- Quote from: Girly1998 on December 22, 2019, 02:46:35 PM ---He didn’t come back on his own though :( even though he “missed” me he didn’t try to reach out even once. This is the first time he actually blocked my number and I don’t know what to do
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I'm sorry Girly. Ghosting is the absolute worst. You really have to ask yourself if this is what you truly want. If he didn't come back on his own and now he has cut off your ability to reach him, I would go on with your life and find new happiness. No one deserves that. He has an obvious character flaw that will resurface unless HE decides to change it. It hurts and it sucks, but perhaps you dodged a bigger bullet. ((HUGS))
Yaz88:
--- Quote from: Girly1998 on December 22, 2019, 02:46:35 PM ---He didn’t come back on his own though :( even though he “missed” me he didn’t try to reach out even once. This is the first time he actually blocked my number and I don’t know what to do
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I’m not entirely sure if there is anything you can do at the moment. Maybe on Christmas or New Years, depending on what your intuition is telling you, find a way to communicate with him. You may need to be the much bigger person and apologize for the argument, I don’t know for certain and I don’t know if you always want to be accommodating him like that because it gets to be exhausting. A New Year is fast approaching, I encourage everyone to be very mindful on what energies they carry with them into the New Year.
Yaz88:
--- Quote from: Girly1998 on December 22, 2019, 03:09:46 PM ---
--- Quote from: Yaz88 on December 22, 2019, 03:04:01 PM ---
--- Quote from: Girly1998 on December 22, 2019, 02:46:35 PM ---He didn’t come back on his own though :( even though he “missed” me he didn’t try to reach out even once. This is the first time he actually blocked my number and I don’t know what to do
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I’m not entirely sure if there is anything you can do at the moment. Maybe on Christmas or New Years, depending on what your intuition is telling you, find a way to communicate with him. You may need to be the much bigger person and apologize for the argument, I don’t know for certain and I don’t know if you always want to be accommodating him like that because it gets to be exhausting. A New Year is fast approaching, I encourage everyone to be very mindful on what energies they carry with them into the New Year.
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Oh I have several times and that’s what prompted the blocking :(
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I’m sorry, Girly. I know how it feels when you try very hard to make a situation right and the other person won’t even meet you an inch. They choose to be difficult for whatever reason. It’s immature behavior that inhibits personal growth and development. I hope you know that his behavior is not your fault and truly has nothing to do with you.
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