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Love2lovenj:
Ok i know there are several threads on this but figured I'd start a fresh one to open up the discussion on timeframes.

When getting a reading how often do you focus on the when?  Why do readers say soon as a when?  I mean soon to me is a week and to a reader it could be a month.

Have you come across any readers who are constantly correct when it comes to timing?

I have had a tarot reader give me timing for a specific month then speak to an empath that will tell me this person has attempted to reach out but then stops themselves.   Which would explain why the contact didn't occur at that time.  Both still say that i will still hear from the person.  I know i will but have come to the point that i don't pay mind to when.

What are your thoughts on this?

HornetKick:

--- Quote from: Love2lovenj on December 03, 2019, 05:23:37 PM ---Ok i know there are several threads on this but figured I'd start a fresh one to open up the discussion on timeframes.

When getting a reading how often do you focus on the when?  Why do readers say soon as a when?  I mean soon to me is a week and to a reader it could be a month.

Have you come across any readers who are constantly correct when it comes to timing?

I have had a tarot reader give me timing for a specific month then speak to an empath that will tell me this person has attempted to reach out but then stops themselves.   Which would explain why the contact didn't occur at that time.  Both still say that i will still hear from the person.  I know i will but have come to the point that i don't pay mind to when.

What are your thoughts on this?

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The part in bold is a lame one because it's nothing you can confirm. How would you know the poi attempted to reach out but then stopped themselves? This seems plausible for every situation on the planet tbh. Readers often say they aren't good with timing, but give out timing anyway, whether or not you ask for it. I've had readers to give accurate timing, but looking back, it was totally an accident, since when you return, they couldn't hit timing to save their lives. I honestly try to avoid empaths for predictions in general. Their version of here and now changes as soon as you get off the phone.

Love2lovenj:
I know this is a habit for him because he has let it slipped and told me so.  I had conversations with him where he would say i wanted to text you late last night.  I don't think he means to let me know.  I think it just slips his lips before he can stop himself.

Sincity2:
I personally think the majority of people can say they are not hanging on to timeframes but in actuality they probably are in some subconscious way. I think it’s unhealthy to wait for someone for so long, but who am I to talk, I still can’t let go of the guy I’m getting readings on.

Arigirl:

--- Quote from: Sincity2 on December 03, 2019, 06:00:25 PM ---I personally think the majority of people can say they are not hanging on to timeframes but in actuality they probably are in some subconscious way. I think it’s unhealthy to wait for someone for so long, but who am I to talk, I still can’t let go of the guy I’m getting readings on.

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I agree with this, almost all of my time frames have passed or been pushed out. I was given an 8 by a reader, which could mean 8 months (8 days, and 8 weeks have passed). I'm definitely not waiting 8 months for contact with my poi

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