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Calling psychics
Lo12345:
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--- Quote from: Lo12345 on September 15, 2019, 09:06:38 PM ---Do we know which advisors share info and such? I would like to know if I have been to one and not got to them again
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Angelbaby of Light and Melody Marie both told me they talked to other psychics about me and asked for input on my situation. I got the impression it was a regular thing on Keen. Melody told me that advisors send each other free minutes and do readings for each other. If they don't want a personal reading then they ask about their clients.
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Can they see who we talk too?
peppie:
--- Quote from: doubleoh8 on September 17, 2019, 02:43:03 PM ---@anewstart I love that you dreamt about your guy before meeting him - what a great reminder that we all have intuition and need to rely on it, rather than some third party stranger to tell us what's coming and what's best for us.
I agree this is a great thread and thanks to all the posters. I am actually seeing a trend on this forum lately that's very positive -- people are opening up about their psychic addictions and habits, and rather than being attacked by other members there is lots of support. I hope this trend continues!
My story is similar to many others I have read on here. I discovered platform psychics in early 2015, just as a promising relationship was starting to go sideways. I became obsessive and began calling psychics more and more, to the point where I was fairly quickly hooked into a cycle of hope, anxiety, doubt and despair. I drained my bank accounts and stayed hooked for nearly 4 years... essentially until I hit a rock bottom of being broke and finally having to wake up to the fact that what reality was showing me was entirely different to the story I had in my head. The guy slipped like sand through my fingers - it was there but never really solid and eventually he met someone and moved on.
The money I wasted is a colossal regret. It was a LOT. But worse, for me, was the impact on my psyche. I read once about a woman who was addicted to psychics and one day she went to see a trusted reader and that reader told her she couldn't read for the woman because her aura was full of holes. I felt that way after 4 years of literally draining myself with psychic readings. I became more fearful, less able to make decisions or trust myself. I also lost touch with reality to a degree... the last time I saw the guy he told me about his new relationship and despite his words it was nearly impossible for me to believe what he was saying.
The good news is that the whole experience did wake me up to some important healing that needs to happen. And the better news is that I feel like I am doing that healing. I am extremely grateful that I got a great job about 8 or 9 months ago, and am slowly recovering financially and psychologically. I am not fully clear of readings, but there are a lot of topics and questions I avoid altogether and my readings are few and far between. Like @Yaz, I had previously used intuitive people for spiritual guidance...and I've tried to go back to that approach. If I'm careful about who I talk to, how often, and what types of questions I ask, that seems to be working - as in helpful for me (no predictions, just guidance). That said, I am aware of how dangerous readings can be for me, and I worry that if I don't heal the things that need healing I could fall down that giant abyss again. The addiction for me is connected to my emotions -- to fear and loss -- and although it sounds cliche I truly believe that many of us struggle with being able to really love ourselves and put our interests first. This is the piece that feels critical to me to heal.
In the end, I don't totally discount the possibility that psychic ability exists. I'm just extremely wary of it. I agree that 99.9% of readers on platforms are either fakes or marginal talents, and that they are there for the income or the ego but not to truly help or enlighten. But even if you find a great reader - the very best reader. Even if someone proves their talent explicitly... even then I feel like there is great cause to be wary. They make mistakes, misinterpret things, over-estimate their gifts. And if you are vulnerable and you truly believe them ... this can have devastating effects.
Sorry this post got so long-winded. I haven't posted on here for some time and I haven't shared a lot because on and off there have been some seriously toxic conversations... but I now come here for the support and the reminder that I'm not alone in my experience and I'm grateful to all who share their stories and for the support that does exist.
For those who are at earlier stages in their calling cycles and starting to see obsessive patterns, I echo the advice given by others: Stop NOW. Nothing good will come of it.
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thanks for sharing this - 100% agree and i loved reading it.
joyjoy:
If you write feedback for advisors, I would assume they can see who you read with.
anewstart:
They used to also have that whole "if I'm not available, this is who I recommend" links which, to me, certainly suggests they share info, kickbacks, all sorts of things. I left honest feedback once for a very popular reader years ago and she sent me a nasty email stating that due to me sharing feedback that none of her predictions re my POI happened after years of calling her, she received an inbox full of emails from other clients panicking and saying they didn't want to live anymore if their POI didn't return and that I was playing with lives by leaving that feedback. And yes, like a moron, I still kept calling. I am also not 100% reading free at the moment but I am getting better in how I approach them and try really hard to let go of the outcome and remain detached. It's been hard but I am very proud of the progress I've made!
anewstart:
--- Quote from: Still tired on September 18, 2019, 06:10:44 AM ---
--- Quote from: anewstart on September 18, 2019, 01:59:29 AM ---They used to also have that whole "if I'm not available, this is who I recommend" links which, to me, certainly suggests they share info, kickbacks, all sorts of things. I left honest feedback once for a very popular reader years ago and she sent me a nasty email stating that due to me sharing feedback that none of her predictions re my POI happened after years of calling her, she received an inbox full of emails from other clients panicking and saying they didn't want to live anymore if their POI didn't return and that I was playing with lives by leaving that feedback. And yes, like a moron, I still kept calling. I am also not 100% reading free at the moment but I am getting better in how I approach them and try really hard to let go of the outcome and remain detached. It's been hard but I am very proud of the progress I've made!
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Oh wow. I got similar guilt trips for leaving honest feedback or even when I hadn't posted any but just told them on the phone that no predictions had come to pass. Some will say anything to prevent you leaving honest feedback or get you to change it after you do. I was told that it would affect all these other people who were waiting on predictions and make them lose hope and that it might cause their predictions not to happen if I left honest feedback. And that it would be bad karma for me. I had other clients attack me in their feedback after I left a low rating. I saw these same people years later still hanging on and waiting on their predictions. So sad but then when I think back to how they acted I don't feel so bad for them, because it was these same people leaving their fake deluded positive feedback that got me sucked in. It was those people along with the psychic who had me thinking predictions came true for everyone else and thinking I was the only one who had nothing happening. It's like they are gaslighting you. But yeah behind the scenes every one of those people is scared their predictions won't happen either and they all go in a panic when someone suggests that.
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Amen to that!!! You're spot on.
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