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Psychics discouraging LOA??
Star_01:
I just had a look at Goddard LOA and it seems a little more realistic and healthier out of all of them in letting things go. But my personal belief is if someone is meant to come back they will or won't, it's out of your control and you should live your life. If they come in? Great. If they don't, then they weren't meant to come back. Your lessons together and experience is done as if they were meant to come back there would be a reason (more lessons, experiences etc).
WinterElf:
LOA has worked for me, esp mirror manifesting .
Everyone is different but psychic readings only cause me worry and stress.
Plus I dont like how some of the psychics are so full of themselves and so confident telling people to make important life decisions because of their visions or tarot cards.
And a lot of the reviews on the sites are either hidden and people who do not have their predictions come to pass are bullied into not saying anything or getting cursed lol
THere are a few psychics who do encourage LOA. One psychic was really good but now she has stopped doing readings and only coach people on manifesting what they want. She was so damn accurate but got tired of people getting addicted to her and relying on her word like she is some god. She is now an alchemist.
Star_01:
--- Quote from: WinterElf on September 02, 2019, 01:56:59 PM ---LOA has worked for me, esp mirror manifesting .
Everyone is different but psychic readings only cause me worry and stress.
Plus I dont like how some of the psychics are so full of themselves and so confident telling people to make important life decisions because of their visions or tarot cards.
And a lot of the reviews on the sites are either hidden and people who do not have their predictions come to pass are bullied into not saying anything or getting cursed lol
THere are a few psychics who do encourage LOA. One psychic was really good but now she has stopped doing readings and only coach people on manifesting what they want. She was so damn accurate but got tired of people getting addicted to her and relying on her word like she is some god. She is now an alchemist.
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I wasn't implying that you should stop believing what you believe, as you are entitled to believe in whatever whether that be free will, LOA or predestined events. You clearly believe in it and it has worked for you, that's fine. But you are going to readers and they are only human, and are allowed to say oh I don't really believe in LOA. If I were a reader and a customer came to me saying about LOA I would say well I'm sorry I respect your views but I don't work or believe in those ways and won't use that in my reading - I'm simply giving what I see. Yona makes it clear and talks about destiny in her readings and says what's the point in free will if you cannot predict the future. People who read with her probably don't believe in destiny but that's for them to decide and that's what I was trying to say here. I personally have been forced LOA on by readers when I strongly disbelieve it, have asked the reader not to mention LOA and just give me what they see and hear, whatever, and they haven't respected that. I guess likewise, if a reader has a belief I have to respect that and put the phone down if I disagree. But maybe the reader you spoke with has her reasons for not believing in it.
But I do agree that readers need to stop telling us what to do because they can get things very wrong. I've been told someone was cheating on me and had a secret wife and family and whatnot and it was not true at all. I have been told to do things and done them because a reader said it and it caused more trouble or no difference. I strongly believe in each individual doing what's right for them and not to live your life by readers and what they say.
WinterElf:
The bottom line for me is that LOA/prayer is free and going to a psychic can cost around 2-20 dollars a minute.
i wish i was not addicted to readings. it really sucks and now with so many people having messed up dating scenarios compared to a couple decades ago ( tinder, bumble, IG), psychic readings are SOARING.
I used to could get a reading once every 3 months and be fine with it. i dont know what was the tipping point for me. However over the years they were always so wrong about the outcome of things. My long term relationships were said that it would never take off and the dead relationships were hyped up as my destiny. I think it is all really weird but i know people need hope and more insight.
Star_01:
--- Quote from: WinterElf on September 02, 2019, 02:42:01 PM ---The bottom line for me is that LOA/prayer is free and going to a psychic can cost around 2-20 dollars a minute.
i wish i was not addicted to readings. it really sucks and now with so many people having messed up dating scenarios compared to a couple decades ago ( tinder, bumble, IG), psychic readings are SOARING.
I used to could get a reading once every 3 months and be fine with it. i dont know what was the tipping point for me. However over the years they were always so wrong about the outcome of things. My long term relationships were said that it would never take off and the dead relationships were hyped up as my destiny. I think it is all really weird but i know people need hope and more insight.
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That's the problem with destiny, I can understand why people are wary of it... It is always seen as a positive thing, "you two are destined for each other!" - No. Not at all. Sometimes you are destined not to work out with someone like I experienced before and didn't listen, thinking I could override it or it would be wrong. And my intuition was free and I ignored mine too and I regret it, getting me into such debt. I've began to learn to start trusting in myself my intuition and not shake it off as me overthinking or worrying too much.
And have you spoken to any family or friends about your addiction, or even seeked anonymous help for it/therapy? The only thing that helped me with my addiction was logic and intuition. Realising that what the readers were saying did not add up to his behaviour and current situation between us, and then I realised I was wasting money, so I was getting bored of readings and felt like they were money down the drain.
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