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Cteebaby1:
I’m here to update! I haven’t had a reading since February 2,2020 due to caring less. The last person I’ve talked to was QOC and Mandy. They’re both empaths. Both told me the attraction was still there and he likes me. Both said that the 3rd party wasn’t around because she’s been with others.

 Fast forward to end of February and now, my POI and I are back talking as friends! We talk otp a lot and text again but nothing serious. I feel as though he still have residual feelings for his ex. It still hurts my feelings how that situation came about. However, I’ve come to realize he just isn’t 💩. She caught him at a great time to even have a relationship. He’s been honest with me ever since about February. He told me they were not seeing eachother in that way anymore. They’re no longer together but they still communicate. I don’t know on what level because he won’t go any further with details. He spent the night last night and things escalated to that level but now I’m scared because I feel as though my old feelings will come back. I had just about moved on but I’ll always love him just not as deeply anymore. This morning he showed me all of “his women” which I didn’t care because they were really a non factor. Plus he basically told them about me at the same time . But then he brought up his ex again and I started feeling some type of way. He said if they hadn’t broken up he wouldn’t be here 🙄. He told me he’s not in love with her though. Before he left he kissed me and the baby and said he loves us. This just really shows me that he’s just not ready to settle down! I stopped getting readings 1 month and 2 weeks ago so I never saw this coming . It was completely random. And to be honest I’m not even mad, hurt, or angry! I feel satisfied because All i ever wanted was the truth ! That was just my little update with my situation !

 

HornetKick:

--- Quote from: Cteebaby1 on March 15, 2020, 05:19:02 PM ---I’m here to update! I haven’t had a reading since February 2,2020 due to caring less. The last person I’ve talked to was QOC and Mandy. They’re both empaths. Both told me the attraction was still there and he likes me. Both said that the 3rd party wasn’t around because she’s been with others.

 Fast forward to end of February and now, my POI and I are back talking as friends! We talk otp a lot and text again but nothing serious. I feel as though he still have residual feelings for his ex. It still hurts my feelings how that situation came about. However, I’ve come to realize he just isn’t 💩. She caught him at a great time to even have a relationship. He’s been honest with me ever since about February. He told me they were not seeing eachother in that way anymore. They’re no longer together but they still communicate. I don’t know on what level because he won’t go any further with details. He spent the night last night and things escalated to that level but now I’m scared because I feel as though my old feelings will come back. I had just about moved on but I’ll always love him just not as deeply anymore. This morning he showed me all of “his women” which I didn’t care because they were really a non factor. Plus he basically told them about me at the same time . But then he brought up his ex again and I started feeling some type of way. He said if they hadn’t broken up he wouldn’t be here 🙄. He told me he’s not in love with her though. Before he left he kissed me and the baby and said he loves us. This just really shows me that he’s just not ready to settle down! I stopped getting readings 1 month and 2 weeks ago so I never saw this coming . It was completely random. And to be honest I’m not even mad, hurt, or angry! I feel satisfied because All i ever wanted was the truth ! That was just my little update with my situation !

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How did this show you he was not ready to settle down? I missed something I think, because wouldn't this show he was?

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