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Readers keep saying his feelings are so strong he cant be with me..(what?)

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dascallie:
Ive heard it ad nauseam. "Our connection was/is so powerful", it overwhelmed him, he loved me SO MUCH that he DUMPED me. Say what?

I've heard versions of  "He was so badly hurt in a previous relationship, when he fell so hard for you, he panicked and ran" over and over.

Doesn't make sense in the real world though, does it? If a man is madly in love with you, he wants to BE with you.

That's the way life works, right?
It's been a mindbender (not in a good way) to be told something so counter-intuitive to common sense, constantly :-(

Why do they do this?

diamondcanadian:

--- Quote from: dascallie on August 05, 2019, 02:05:22 AM ---Ive heard it ad nauseam. "Our connection was/is so powerful", it overwhelmed him, he loved me SO MUCH that he DUMPED me. Say what?

I've heard versions of  "He was so badly hurt in a previous relationship, when he fell so hard for you, he panicked and ran" over and over.

Doesn't make sense in the real world though, does it? If a man is madly in love with you, he wants to BE with you.

That's the way life works, right?
It's been a mindbender (not in a good way) to be told something so counter-intuitive to common sense, constantly :-(

Why do they do this?

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I’ve had this before !

Drives me crazy .
All these men need to stop being pussies if it’s true!

Can you imagine if we did the same?

SomethingBetter:
I’ve heard it and I call b.s.

When someone wants you, most will go for it.

I’m not saying there aren’t people who are damaged, confused, have their hands tied, whatever. But most people go for what they want. It’s biologically wired in us.

When any reader tells me this I am less likely to read with them again.

I don’t want flowers and rainbows.

Actually I do! Lol just not from a reader

dascallie:
I'm thinking it's not true.

I mean, in life we know actions tell the story---how can someone with such * strong* feelings never reach out, for months and months?

But my real question is why do literally dozens of psychics tell me this same thing--when we have had zero contact for 10 months?

Are they just being irresponsible---are they just reading my wants?

Girly1998:
You know, I’d really love the opportunity to see both parties get readings. I wonder if the readers would feed the guys we call about the same bs they feed us. I wonder if they’d also tell the guy to hold off on contacting first and to wait for us to reach out.

I think being damaged in a relationship and running is pretty reasonable but they usually come back after realizing what they’ve done.

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