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When your gut tells you prediction is wrong
Girly1998:
I think ghosting is either the person doesn’t want to deal with knowing they hurt your feeling or they are keeping you around in case they want you at some other point. In some cases I also believe some may do it because they know it hurts and are being petty. None are okay, and I honestly don’t think I could ever trust a ghoster again. Who’s to say they won’t do it again?
I’m sorry your dealing with this, I hope you get the closure you need and if reconciliation of what you truly want I hope that for you as well.
Fidget1028:
--- Quote from: Girly1998 on July 25, 2019, 04:51:26 PM ---I think ghosting is either the person doesn’t want to deal with knowing they hurt your feeling or they are keeping you around in case they want you at some other point. In some cases I also believe some may do it because they know it hurts and are being petty. None are okay, and I honestly don’t think I could ever trust a ghoster again. Who’s to say they won’t do it again?
I’m sorry your dealing with this, I hope you get the closure you need and if reconciliation of what you truly want I hope that for you as well.
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It's the chicken s**t way out.
Girly1998:
--- Quote from: Fidget1028 on July 25, 2019, 05:07:36 PM ---
--- Quote from: Girly1998 on July 25, 2019, 04:51:26 PM ---I think ghosting is either the person doesn’t want to deal with knowing they hurt your feeling or they are keeping you around in case they want you at some other point. In some cases I also believe some may do it because they know it hurts and are being petty. None are okay, and I honestly don’t think I could ever trust a ghoster again. Who’s to say they won’t do it again?
I’m sorry your dealing with this, I hope you get the closure you need and if reconciliation of what you truly want I hope that for you as well.
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It's the chicken s**t way out.
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Exactly. But you’re the “crazy” one if you keep trying to contact them.
candiednut:
This is not the same situation but for some people that seem to think if you talk to them AT ALL (even if it's to tell them to f off) there's a chance they have with you. For them I just ignore ignore ignore. Because anything I say will be misconstrued as "omgawd she talked to me!!!!"
ladya:
the best response is to say nothing. people get bothered when they think it doesn't affect you. I've never been ghosted but i never force people to stay in my life. The door is open and Ill never chase anyone or try to make someone see something theyre blind to see. People see what they have to see in their allotted time. When you just let them go on their merry way, they'll come back because they don't understand why you let them go so easily. humans are funny in that way.
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