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Were you able to salvage/rekindle after a bad breakup?
Girly1998:
I feel like most people get readings during difficult times involving love. For those of you who have went through terrible breakups, were you able to get them back?
Did you listen to psychics who always tell you not to make first contact even when your POI has no reason to believe you want to talk to them? How did you do it?
ladya:
Every single one of my exes has come back no matter how terrible the break up was. I only listen to their advice if it aligns with what I feel or should do. I can forgive myself for the mistakes I make but I’d have a hard time forgiving myself if I didn’t listen to myself and listened to others. Always have been that way. when my ex and I broke up SO MANY PEOPLE told me I was crazy he moved on etc etc and I’m like no it’s a lie I feel it. He came back and said everything I knew to be true that I felt the entire time. I even had dreams where he would tell me things. Always listen to yourself. I didn’t want him by the time he came back but when Love is there anything is salvageable. You just have to be able to put the past to rest and start anew. I’m a big believer in real love and I’m a realist and very practical person but when love is still there between 2 people anything is possible. I’ve seen it happen time and time again.
Fidget1028:
--- Quote from: Girly1998 on July 13, 2019, 03:37:00 PM ---I feel like most people get readings during difficult times involving love. For those of you who have went through terrible breakups, were you able to get them back?
Did you listen to psychics who always tell you not to make first contact even when your POI has no reason to believe you want to talk to them? How did you do it?
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I made first contact a few times, but not because a psychic told me to, just because I felt drawn to do it. It didn't lead to reconciliation, but I always got a positive reply. Go with your gut is my advice.
flora0250:
My gut has been telling me if I leave this man alone long enough and let him go through whatever he’s going through... that what was there between us once was actually real enough and strong enough that he will eventually at least reach out to me again.
Problem is that I admit it seems so ridiculously illogical and I keep telling myself to see the reality that he’s with someone else now and don’t ignore that and live in la-la land.
I’m just constantly in conflict.
But I think I’m finding I can make more steps to “move forward” while still believing this to be true. That I really have to “move forward” for my own well being even if my gut is right. I could be totally totally off base and letting my ego cloud my intuition.
And to the question in the post. Yes. Definitely. My ex husband and I reconnected after not seeing each other for 12 years and I still was in love with him and we rekindled things very quickly and got married very quickly. I don’t regret it. But it was too fast. And it ended up being a really awful divorce. But now I find I can even still love him but have moved far on from that.
Girly1998:
--- Quote from: Fidget1028 on July 13, 2019, 04:45:15 PM ---
--- Quote from: Girly1998 on July 13, 2019, 03:37:00 PM ---I feel like most people get readings during difficult times involving love. For those of you who have went through terrible breakups, were you able to get them back?
Did you listen to psychics who always tell you not to make first contact even when your POI has no reason to believe you want to talk to them? How did you do it?
--- End quote ---
I made first contact a few times, but not because a psychic told me to, just because I felt drawn to do it. It didn't lead to reconciliation, but I always got a positive reply. Go with your gut is my advice.
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If you don’t mind me asking, why did it never lead to reconciliation?
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