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Male readers or psychics...not as accurate?

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aquagirl:
Actually, I've had great success with male readers.  If i say top 4, 2 are men who i trust and things have come to pass.  I don't find men to be worse than women. If there is another man i've read with and he was good, but he was hit or miss conversation wise when you speak to him, and i didn't like that. but so far what he's said has been accurate.

Star_01:
I find women readers can be just as bad at trying to say what men like and why they behave the way they do and they base their experiences of men and what most men want and do, and it has lead to the reading being pretty psychological and advice and opinion based. Not all men are the same so it's best for readers not to try and generalise.

sawthelight:

--- Quote from: Star_01 on July 11, 2019, 03:47:21 PM ---I find women readers can be just as bad at trying to say what men like and why they behave the way they do and they base their experiences of men and what most men want and do, and it has lead to the reading being pretty psychological and advice and opinion based. Not all men are the same so it's best not to try and generalise.

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I guess it can go either way, just overall, my experience with readings from men tend to not resonate as much...not because it isn't what I want to hear, but it doesn't make sense in my situation.  I'm just basing this on my experience with many (too many lol) readings over the years.  For instance, I thought Count Marco was really in tune when I read with him...

But I agree, I've had some bad women readers too..who let their own biases or opinions get in the way.

Star_01:

--- Quote from: sawthelight on July 11, 2019, 03:49:57 PM ---
--- Quote from: Star_01 on July 11, 2019, 03:47:21 PM ---I find women readers can be just as bad at trying to say what men like and why they behave the way they do and they base their experiences of men and what most men want and do, and it has lead to the reading being pretty psychological and advice and opinion based. Not all men are the same so it's best not to try and generalise.

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I guess it can go either way, just overall, my experience with readings from men tend to not resonate as much...not because it isn't what I want to hear, but it doesn't make sense in my situation.  I'm just basing this on my experience with many (too many lol) readings over the years.  For instance, I thought Count Marco was really in tune when I read with him...

But I agree, I've had some bad women readers too..who let their own biases or opinions get in the way.

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Sorry I meant about readers, it's best that they try to not generalise. The amount of times I've had a woman reader say "men don't like this", or "men don't like that" or "men behave like this and that".  I can't really comment on male readers as I hardly used any, I came close to talking to empath Eamon on Keen but never did in the end.

HornetKick:
I always felt this was the case as well. Men aren't as in tuned as women or they aren't as connected to things outside of a tangible realm. Men are hardwired to think in a hardwired way more so than women, although it's not all men or all women by any means. This is just the way I feel and have experienced males in certain roles. For example I took my dog to a male vet once and he was just so unsympathetic towards the dog and what she was going through, whereas a female was more nurturing and empathic at least. I typically seek out females more so than males, but that is not to say I haven't found a few men who are good. I just hardly ever read with males a second time. I will give the wrong psychic female a second chance either because she was very nice, talked to me in a pleasant manner or was close to figuring out my situation.

I read with both John Warren and ItalyShawn, and both were very kind. I felt John Warren skewed towards making everything upbeat and positive, but I won't know for sure with him until about September. ItalyShawn ended up being wrong about everything I asked him about.

Anytime a reader gives advice whether it's about how they think men behave, it's annoying. I don't want or need advice from any reader and I wish they were more connected to how they say things and stop it already.

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