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Male readers or psychics...not as accurate?
aquagirl:
--- Quote from: HornetKick on July 11, 2019, 06:59:31 PM ---I always felt this was the case as well. Men aren't as in tuned as women or they aren't as connected to things outside of a tangible realm. Men are hardwired to think in a hardwired way more so than women, although it's not all men or all women by any means. This is just the way I feel and have experienced males in certain roles. For example I took my dog to a male vet once and he was just so unsympathetic towards the dog and what she was going through, whereas a female was more nurturing and empathic at least. I typically seek out females more so than males, but that is not to say I haven't found a few men who are good. I just hardly ever read with males a second time. I will give the wrong psychic female a second chance either because she was very nice, talked to me in a pleasant manner or was close to figuring out my situation.
I read with both John Warren and ItalyShawn, and both were very kind. I felt John Warren skewed towards making everything upbeat and positive, but I won't know for sure with him until about September. ItalyShawn ended up being wrong about everything I asked him about.
Anytime a reader gives advice whether it's about how they think men behave, it's annoying. I don't want or need advice from any reader and I wish they were more connected to how they say things and stop it already.
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I will say based on the fb groups i'm in this is what most readers want to do, is be armchair psychologists. it's annoying af and they don't seem to understand thats not what people want. that and they want to rephrase questions. or they don't read third parties or read what ever. My old psychic was amazing until she fell into the habit of opinion. I hate it. Sometimes the psychological side maybe warranted, say they are telling about a Leo man and his tendencies, that's fine for me. I prefer the old school readers, who didn't add all of this stuff in and just read you what they see, end of story.
I personally love John, and he has worked really well for me.
journalmuse:
The only male reader I ever had any good experience with was Brice on CP. I wouldn't hazard a guess as to why but I do think it's statistically true for me.
HornetKick:
--- Quote from: aquagirl on July 11, 2019, 08:39:30 PM ---I will say based on the fb groups i'm in this is what most readers want to do, is be armchair psychologists. it's annoying af and they don't seem to understand thats not what people want. that and they want to rephrase questions. or they don't read third parties or read what ever. My old psychic was amazing until she fell into the habit of opinion. I hate it. Sometimes the psychological side maybe warranted, say they are telling about a Leo man and his tendencies, that's fine for me. I prefer the old school readers, who didn't add all of this stuff in and just read you what they see, end of story.
I personally love John, and he has worked really well for me.
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Really?? This is complete news to me. I thought readers wanted to be psychics. Don't they know you need a degree to be a psychologists? If it's too tiring for them to delve into their psychic mode when giving readings perhaps they should space out their readings, take longer breaks, or get out of the business.
lp1111:
--- Quote from: HornetKick on July 11, 2019, 09:52:52 PM ---
--- Quote from: aquagirl on July 11, 2019, 08:39:30 PM ---I will say based on the fb groups i'm in this is what most readers want to do, is be armchair psychologists. it's annoying af and they don't seem to understand thats not what people want. that and they want to rephrase questions. or they don't read third parties or read what ever. My old psychic was amazing until she fell into the habit of opinion. I hate it. Sometimes the psychological side maybe warranted, say they are telling about a Leo man and his tendencies, that's fine for me. I prefer the old school readers, who didn't add all of this stuff in and just read you what they see, end of story.
I personally love John, and he has worked really well for me.
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Really?? This is complete news to me. I thought readers wanted to be psychics. Don't they know you need a degree to be a psychologists? If it's too tiring for them to delve into their psychic mode when giving readings perhaps they should space out their readings, take longer breaks, or get out of the business.
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It’s funny, I’ve noticed a lotttt of psychics note that they have degrees in psychology related fields.
HornetKick:
Yeah that's true now that I think about it. It just never occurred to me that was their aim.
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