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Having a rough week
lp1111:
Luckystar, I’m sorry you went through this. I’m not at a point that I’m holding on to hoping for him anymore. I’ve let go as much as I can because I did not deserve this and do not want someone who would treat me like this. I guess I’m just confused as to WHY I’m treated with so little respect. It’s tough.
And somethingbetter, thank you girl! I agree with the middle finger LOL but in all honesty, I’m mostly to blame. If I’m having to call to psychics to see if someone loves me, I already have my answer. I have completely come to a point where I find his actions disgusting, so hey that’s some closure for me!
lp1111:
Sawthelight, you are absolutely correct. I would never sit and wait for someone who didn’t see me as worthwhile. I don’t see myself accepting any apology or explanation even if I ever get one. I’m just having a hard time picking myself up at the moment, BUT I’m sure the reason behind all of this will present itself soon enough. I’m just so ready to finally understand the meaning for it.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Lpoche on July 02, 2019, 05:18:08 PM ---Sawthelight, you are absolutely correct. I would never sit and wait for someone who didn’t see me as worthwhile. I don’t see myself accepting any apology or explanation even if I ever get one. I’m just having a hard time picking myself up at the moment, BUT I’m sure the reason behind all of this will present itself soon enough. I’m just so ready to finally understand the meaning for it.
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I understand, I truly do..hugs to you..time will make it better. In the meantime, I would block all forms of communication..don't look at the social media with the new girl or whatever..why torture yourself. You deserve better. :D
SomethingBetter:
--- Quote from: Lpoche on July 02, 2019, 05:14:44 PM ---Luckystar, I’m sorry you went through this. I’m not at a point that I’m holding on to hoping for him anymore. I’ve let go as much as I can because I did not deserve this and do not want someone who would treat me like this. I guess I’m just confused as to WHY I’m treated with so little respect. It’s tough.
And somethingbetter, thank you girl! I agree with the middle finger LOL but in all honesty, I’m mostly to blame. If I’m having to call to psychics to see if someone loves me, I already have my answer. I have completely come to a point where I find his actions disgusting, so hey that’s some closure for me!
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I think we all need to get good and disgusted. That is where I am trying to get to. You mentioned a while back when you first found out about this girl how you were taken aback and felt grossed out and I remember thinking I needed to feel the same.
I am doing everything in my power to feel repulsed by this guy lol. I hope it works and I hope we can all get to that level.
We all deserve that closure.
sawthelight:
I honestly don't even want to know if my first POI is with someone else, I really don't. I just take his lack of communication and behavior while I knew him as closure...that's just me though lol.
If he is with someone else though, she has my sympathies LOL.
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