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I need help guys... :/
ArcherBullFish:
Well...You people will fight anywhere won't you? ( <---- RHETORICAL ) The horrible thing is the feeling of watching and waiting for an opportunity to pounce. I would say the replies could possibly harm the poster but that clearly isn't true considering she barely acknowledged the replies then proceeded to post that she got yet another reading and was told things that made her spiral. -_-
Look I don't know you or your situation and there's a chance you will overlook this comment because the one you're hoping to see isn't here yet but TRUST THE ACTIONS AND THE WORDS OF YOUR CHILDS FATHER. Follow his lead and look after yourself. If that man ever had feelings for you reading will ALWAYS pick that up in some warped fashion because of a prior connection. If he says he doesn't want you then behave accordingly. You weren't born with anyone and even if you died in a crowd you'd still be alone in that last moment. This isn't just for romance. Follow your gut in all things and you can't go wrong. Don't ignore what's right in front of you because a reader told you different.
TBH when I read your post I immediately though "Dude got another woman..." I'm not a reader so I don't know if that is the case but for the simple fact that he's told you flat out how he feels and you continue to try to find ways to change the status quo to suit your mood implies that he was always upfront and open in regards to his intentions and you completely ignored it. Again I can be wrong and at this point it doesn't matter what was said you need to focus on what needs to be done in the here and now.
Although I'm pretty sure you're gonna do exactly as you've been doing...
josh34:
--- Quote from: Catlover86 on June 26, 2019, 02:06:13 AM ---I have an update on this post. So spoke to Gaylene, had some money left over from last convo plus 3 mins for free. Gaylene still sees us getting closer and the month of July he would be inclined to romance. Yona as you guys know saw Ace of Cups. Adult love, she didn’t think this was the baby. Both see summer-ish the time for this to happen. Well, I spoke to QOC and she picked up a 3rd party. I asked who I thought it could be saw sexual energy but no love. I asked her how he felt about me she said he loves me, that he loves my maternal energy. Also said she saw him being more communicative about the baby and sees a “closeness” too. Well, I know this is stupid but he and I aren’t friends on Snapchat anymore. I was like wtf? I know it’s just Snapchat but at the same time I would send him belly pics/videos and we would sometimes converse on there too. So a 7 month emotional hormonal pregnant woman going through this is just torture. I give up.
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Did he delete you like now? Did you just find that out? I would say to be optimistic if Abundant, and Yona are picking up on getting closer! <3 They're usually really really good and far above many others.
I want to add too that I have seen situations take 180s in an instance. Esepecially since he's the father, and after rereading your first post on this thread, I'd be really surprised if you two don't become closer, if not simply due to the child. But even then, with that there, you can use that as a building point to repair the relationshiP <3
username1111:
We are not just talking about a potential romance here. You guys are going to become the parents of a little one and both of you will be bound for the rest of your lives by this kid. I don't think any psychics will give you the answers that you seek better than the future dad himself! Please, be practical, and open the discussion with this man to know where he stands and what you can expect from him.
Most psychics fail to see future events and outcomes properly. Don't hold onto readings, have an adult conversation with this man. Please, you need to handle that with maturity not with a dreamy / hopeful mindset that may lead you to some important disappointments.
Don't hesitate to ping me. Take care.
Catlover86:
--- Quote from: josh34 on June 26, 2019, 02:19:25 AM ---
--- Quote from: Catlover86 on June 26, 2019, 02:06:13 AM ---I have an update on this post. So spoke to Gaylene, had some money left over from last convo plus 3 mins for free. Gaylene still sees us getting closer and the month of July he would be inclined to romance. Yona as you guys know saw Ace of Cups. Adult love, she didn’t think this was the baby. Both see summer-ish the time for this to happen. Well, I spoke to QOC and she picked up a 3rd party. I asked who I thought it could be saw sexual energy but no love. I asked her how he felt about me she said he loves me, that he loves my maternal energy. Also said she saw him being more communicative about the baby and sees a “closeness” too. Well, I know this is stupid but he and I aren’t friends on Snapchat anymore. I was like wtf? I know it’s just Snapchat but at the same time I would send him belly pics/videos and we would sometimes converse on there too. So a 7 month emotional hormonal pregnant woman going through this is just torture. I give up.
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Did he delete you like now? Did you just find that out? I would say to be optimistic if Abundant, and Yona are picking up on getting closer! <3 They're usually really really good and far above many others.
I want to add too that I have seen situations take 180s in an instance. Esepecially since he's the father, and after rereading your first post on this thread, I'd be really surprised if you two don't become closer, if not simply due to the child. But even then, with that there, you can use that as a building point to repair the relationshiP <3
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He deleted me today. I posted a selfie, it came up on my memories. He saw it, was chatting with someone else on Snapchat throughout the day.. saw his username and his emoji thing was gone clicked on his name and it said “add friend.” I haven’t talk to him that consistently since last week. He went MIA, he messaged me asking how I was doing on Sunday but that was it. Literally I have gotten from Gaylene closeness and by july/August feel like we’re together, Yona said Ace of cups but didn’t tie it to the baby, said adult love, status change summer/after summer, even queen of cups said a “closeness” between us, lady Jenna said he wants to spend more time with me, Gaylene said the same. I don’t understand.
Sparkle002:
Cat - I'm so sorry to hear this.
I do want to give some perspective regarding Yona (Ive never read with Gaylene). Also to be transparent, I havent followed your entire story here - so I may be jumping in halfway...
Yona can easy mix up energies. She is very well known to do that (she has done it with me for a major prediction regarding my POI). I thought he prediction was for my original POI and it turned out to be someone else.
I dont doubt Yona in this instance, but be optimistic that it may be someone else, and it may not be in the original timeframe she suggested.
I'd personally not put to much hope in what appears in reality to be a dead end situation (that's just me).
Be open to the fact that it could be someone else ...the other thing is do you really really want your BD back? Just something to think about. When we remove emotion out of it and look at facts, is that something we really want when there is someone who could treat us waaaay better? #foodforthought
Nothing wrong with being optimistic - but being hopeful about a situation that seems to be a dead end can deplete energy when that energy can be released to allow some one else who deserves you to come in. Again, we never know what the future brings - ppl can do a 180 out of the blue as well, but I just wouldnt hold my breath.
--- Quote from: Catlover86 on June 26, 2019, 07:37:16 AM ---
--- Quote from: josh34 on June 26, 2019, 02:19:25 AM ---
--- Quote from: Catlover86 on June 26, 2019, 02:06:13 AM ---I have an update on this post. So spoke to Gaylene, had some money left over from last convo plus 3 mins for free. Gaylene still sees us getting closer and the month of July he would be inclined to romance. Yona as you guys know saw Ace of Cups. Adult love, she didn’t think this was the baby. Both see summer-ish the time for this to happen. Well, I spoke to QOC and she picked up a 3rd party. I asked who I thought it could be saw sexual energy but no love. I asked her how he felt about me she said he loves me, that he loves my maternal energy. Also said she saw him being more communicative about the baby and sees a “closeness” too. Well, I know this is stupid but he and I aren’t friends on Snapchat anymore. I was like wtf? I know it’s just Snapchat but at the same time I would send him belly pics/videos and we would sometimes converse on there too. So a 7 month emotional hormonal pregnant woman going through this is just torture. I give up.
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Did he delete you like now? Did you just find that out? I would say to be optimistic if Abundant, and Yona are picking up on getting closer! <3 They're usually really really good and far above many others.
I want to add too that I have seen situations take 180s in an instance. Esepecially since he's the father, and after rereading your first post on this thread, I'd be really surprised if you two don't become closer, if not simply due to the child. But even then, with that there, you can use that as a building point to repair the relationshiP <3
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He deleted me today. I posted a selfie, it came up on my memories. He saw it, was chatting with someone else on Snapchat throughout the day.. saw his username and his emoji thing was gone clicked on his name and it said “add friend.” I haven’t talk to him that consistently since last week. He went MIA, he messaged me asking how I was doing on Sunday but that was it. Literally I have gotten from Gaylene closeness and by july/August feel like we’re together, Yona said Ace of cups but didn’t tie it to the baby, said adult love, status change summer/after summer, even queen of cups said a “closeness” between us, lady Jenna said he wants to spend more time with me, Gaylene said the same. I don’t understand.
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