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I need help guys... :/
Love2lovenj:
I agree don't fret over the reading. Half the time these outcomes never happen even if they tell you exactly what you are wearing at that moment and what you binge watched 3 months ago. Nothing is set in stone. I would just focus on your all around health and the little one you are carrying. Plus save your money because having a baby is costly.
happyk:
Exactly opposite of what Yona said to me is happening to me right now so I wouldn't put my eggs in that basket. I'm sorry but I think we all need to be real and your baby needs you, save that money. Anything a psychic says, I would not base my life on it because I've had a lot of experience and 99% of what they said has been wrong. I've gotten a hit here and there but nothing major has happened. I cannot even imagine being in your shoes and you are very brave but don't cling on to anything. Even psychics have to give you disclaimer that readings are for entertainment purposes only so I would'nt listen to anyone saying psychics are right and be hopeful, not what I've been through. Hope it's a very dangerous thing. If a man loves you and wants to be in your life there's absolutely nothing that would keep him apart from you.
persephone:
I know how you feel, I’m a mother and I’ve been in your shoes. It’s easy to say it and hard to do it, but I think stress and worry won’t help you and your baby.
Take everything with a grain of salt.
bstalling:
Heartfelt advice, stop the readings and focus on your life in a practical way. No psychic is ever to be relied upon on situations that matter for you. Consider having an honest talk with your childs father, seek counseling, and maybe ask for practical help from your friends and families. Whatever is meant to happen will happen. Save your money.
diamondcanadian:
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--- Quote from: Catlover86 on June 20, 2019, 06:09:28 PM ---Hi everyone,
I am feeling so down today. Could really use some help. I’ve had readings with Yona, abundant visions, cookie, and lady Jenna this year. They all pick up the same thing. I’ll be in a relationship around summer/after summer so like July-September? Right now, things aren’t going so well in any area of my life. I am pregnant, I need to move out of my current home, and financially I am struggling. Unfortunately I am not in a relationship with the dad but he’s very involved. Yona mentioned new love and asked me of that surprised me, I said well I’m pregnant so I don’t know if you’re picking up the pregnancy/baby, she said it was “adult love” potential long term. Then said she saw a man and woman’s hand together in an agreement but that it had to do with moving? She said he and I would move in together. We’re not even in a relationship and we live 2 hours away from each other. So I don’t know. Cookie saw exactly what’s happening now, periods in 2019 of me not feeling like a priority, going to be times where I want to just walk away, but she saw us meeting families (which happened) and that we would be getting closer. Didn’t saw we would be in a relationship so idk, abundant sees him wanting to start up a romantic relationship, gave me the timeframe, and said basically my life is going to be good. Right now things seem so shitty :,( I feel like he’s still doing his thing if you know what I mean because he’s distant now. Nobody picks ups on a third party, not even Yona but still. Then I feel like shit because I told him I booked a date to take maternity pictures and asked if he wanted to join, he said no. :,( made me feel so stupid. Can anyone give me some advice? I know these are very popular readers. What do you guys think?
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Why have his baby if he’s a total retard? I’m not being insensitive but I’m asking because I know a lot of cases where this happens and I don’t understand it. also the readers u mentioned maybe popular but doesn’t mean they are accurate with current situation AND OUTCOMES. None of those u mentioned were right for me . I feel like helping u so I’m going to inbox u . It baffles me how men can be to a woman AFTER sex and good times but don’t let these advisors make u hold on to something and hold on to hurt longer than u have to . My mother always told me What loves you doesn’t hurt you...and the main reason I don’t have kids til this day is because I refuse to be in a parentship or play house or have to have a shitty man in my life longer than I need to . Stay positive and leave him be
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I get your point totally for the rest of the post , but that first line is completely insensitive, even though you said you didn’t mean to be.
There are plenty of reasons why people follow through with a pregnancy when a dad isn’t around, and your curiosity on the matter isn’t a reason for the OP to share. It’s none of our business and she shouldn’t have to, as this is obviously a sensitive and emotional time for her right now.
What if the reason is because she was told she couldn’t have kids , and this miracle happened and she’s following through because she believes it may never happen for her again?
What if it’s a religious reason?
What if it’s simply the joy of having a child?
It’s none of our business - just support the OP where support is needed , not questioning her on her choices
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