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Oh the lurkers....
miss_t:
I was a lurker until today. Almost everyday I keep trying to login but I keep getting that message about waiting for admin approval. Why does it have to take that long? Anyhoo, was just approved today so here I am. Just posted about Angel Readings (bitwine) and Clarissa (AskNow). Will be posting on other readers as well. Still thinking who is worth the time lol
Stargazing:
I'm a lurker because the times I have shared my experiences, sometimes it would be criticized or questioned if it was something others didn't agree with. I have deleted some of my shared experiences because of this.
I do look on the site because it's helpful, to see if psychics I read with are telling others the same or to see if they have worked, or not worked for others. I am thankful for the site and apologize for lurking if it offends anybody.
Miss Philosopher:
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--- Quote from: FlutterShy on May 22, 2019, 04:20:57 PM ---What?! You’ll crazy ...you want genuinely addicted people posting and ranting? Demanding they share their opinion? ... cooooooolsies
What I consider a threat are people waiting... weeks and months then revealing to be psychics looking forever for future clients. But you can’t stop them...
Then then there are those who genuinely sign up, check up a review then move on with their lives. Or people get busy... not being obsessed with this forum is probably an improvement on their lives.
Should their be like a 6months or 2 year ban... I dunno. I do like that IP address is checked and traced to prevent from multiple account being created. If you erase/delete someone after an amount whose to say the same parasitic lurker wouldn’t be doing the same as before.
Whatever that’s my two cents
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I didn't know that about the IP address. That is awesome.
No its not about obsessing either its just if you want to try someone but don't trust the reviews on the site. Then come here but people that have tried them don't say anything then you really have nothing to go by.
Or even when people rave about a reader and lets say they didn't work so well for you but everyone says how amazing they are. Then you don't say that she didn't work for you and there maybe others that they didn't work for but they aren't saying. So you start thinking darn they were just off for me. 😔
My point was that it would be more helpful if people just posted on whether someone connected with them or not. I mainly use bitwine and its annoying to see an advisor get a negative review and they respond you just didn't like the truth. BUT we know that there are people who don't leave favorably reviews if the reading is negative. So at least here one doesn't have to concern themselves with that.
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LOL this, this is such a great comment. Agreed. I love the way you put it.
Love2lovenj:
--- Quote from: jas on May 24, 2019, 01:38:12 PM ---Thanks for the link Happy.
Hum....not sure how I feel about the lurkers because I feel a bit like a lurker myself. I rarely see any threads about the regulars that I read with, therefore, I really have nothing to add. I enjoy reading about all the different psychics but I rarely feel motivated enough to call them only because I am quiet happy with my regulars. When I first joined the board, I posted about my favorite readers and pretty much said everything I had to say, so now I guess I fall into the lurker category.
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Nice to meet you Jas. 😊
See you have read with people who aren't spoke about. That's a perfect time to start a thread on them. Who knows maybe others have done the same but just figured no one else has tried them. Never know, you might have ppl who could share their experiences with the board.
Love2lovenj:
--- Quote from: Stargazing on May 24, 2019, 10:17:01 PM ---I'm a lurker because the times I have shared my experiences, sometimes it would be criticized or questioned if it was something others didn't agree with. I have deleted some of my shared experiences because of this.
I do look on the site because it's helpful, to see if psychics I read with are telling others the same or to see if they have worked, or not worked for others. I am thankful for the site and apologize for lurking if it offends anybody.
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I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I always wondered why i would come across a post where the original posting was deleted. Hopefully people will realize this and be more mindful.
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