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Do all psychics tell you that your POI loves you?
Sweetsydney2000:
--- Quote from: HornetKick on April 26, 2019, 12:12:04 AM ---Some people are not capable of loving, even if they treat you right; some people do have limits, but it may not be on purpose. They just aren't capable of being the person you need them to be. They can steadily mistreat you and in the same instance continually tell you how much they love you and they know they are being cruel towards you, but can't curb their dysfunction.
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I agree. I literally just shared this meme on Facebook and I feel like I can relate to it more now than ever.
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wishes215:
None of the good ones have told me that and that is accurate. The fakes ones, yes:)
Sweetsydney2000:
--- Quote from: wishes215 on April 26, 2019, 05:59:54 AM ---None of the good ones have told me that and that is accurate. The fakes ones, yes:)
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Which ones have been good for you?
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: HornetKick on April 26, 2019, 12:12:04 AM ---Some people are not capable of loving, even if they treat you right; some people do have limits, but it may not be on purpose. They just aren't capable of being the person you need them to be. They can steadily mistreat you and in the same instance continually tell you how much they love you and they know they are being cruel towards you, but can't curb their dysfunction.
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Absolutely!
Miss Philosopher:
--- Quote from: HornetKick on April 26, 2019, 12:12:04 AM ---Some people are not capable of loving, even if they treat you right; some people do have limits, but it may not be on purpose. They just aren't capable of being the person you need them to be. They can steadily mistreat you and in the same instance continually tell you how much they love you and they know they are being cruel towards you, but can't curb their dysfunction.
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Is it possible to treat someone "right" without love being the motivating factor? I've not met a person in my lifetime that has treated a person wrong that they loved nor one that has treated a person "right" that they didn't love. To have the desire to treat someone right has to be driven by some kind of a love/care emotion first I would think. I don't know how what you said is possible with regard to the statement "some people are not capable of loving, even if they treat you right". That doesn't make sense to me. I'll have to ponder on that statement more but at the moment, it doesn't make sense.
I'll say that there are those that might think they love a person but their behaviors will tell you one way or another if they do or not. A person that really loves you will consider your thoughts, feelings, wants, needs, your best interests, etc. They will consider your life as a whole and make decisions based upon that love and care for you. However, a person that doesn't love you, rather, they love the idea of love but will only consider themselves, will treat you in ways that are very hurtful and even if/when you express that to them, nothing changes and that behavior carries on............why? Because they do not love you as a person..........they love the idea of having someone there loving them. That's been my experience and my own observations.
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