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Do all psychics tell you that your POI loves you?

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Sweetsydney2000:
I’m just wondering if this is a classic stock line that they tell everybody...? Even the best of psychics like Kisha and Cookie have told me that my on and off boyfriend of many years really does love me, and I believe that to an extent, it’s been a very long time, I’m sure he has formed some sort of ‘love’ for me. We were just kids when we met. But that doesn’t change the fact that if he really loved me, he wouldn’t be hurting me the way he does.

Do all psychics tell you that your ex/boyfriend/crush or whoever else... are still in love with you?

Miss Philosopher:
Most of them do. But I've had two of them say that a person did not love me, but cared for me in some way. I agree with the above poster. Be careful listening to them tell you how someone feels about you. Judge that by your POI's actions and behaviors toward you and how they treat you. Love is a behavior, not just an emotion. Typically, when a person really loves you, they won't consistently do things to hurt you. That's not a behavior of genuine love. That is a behavior of selfishness.

happyk:
Pretty much. If not then he's scared of commitments.

PinkyD:

--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on April 25, 2019, 02:37:43 PM ---Most of them do. But I've had two of them say that a person did not love me, but cared for me in some way. I agree with the above poster. Be careful listening to them tell you how someone feels about you. Judge that by your POI's actions and behaviors toward you and how they treat you. Love is a behavior, not just an emotion Typically, when a person really loves you, they won't consistently do things to hurt you. That's not a behavior of genuine love. That is a behavior of selfishness.

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Such a simple but absolutely profound statement, if i kept this in mind more, I'd be less confused about people....

HornetKick:
Some people are not capable of loving, even if they treat you right; some people do have limits, but it may not be on purpose. They just aren't capable of being the person you need them to be. They can steadily mistreat you and in the same instance continually tell you how much they love you and they know they are being cruel towards you, but can't curb their dysfunction.

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