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happyk:
Thanks for sharing Sillyme. And I am sorry that you are not happy in a relationship that you always wanted. We really fail to see the telltale signs of   an emotionally unhealthy person. I look at some men I dated who were in there 30s and are still "not looking for anything serious". I think it is one of the signs where you should tell yourself RUN! I tried changing a man who wasn't looking for a relationship and I actually saw him falling in love with me too but it wasn't supposed to work and it didn't. When I look back, boy did I dodge a bullet. He has narcolepsy and I feel bad about that, it's not his fault but he would fall asleep all the time!! Like we would sit down to watch TV and five minutes in to the movie, he's asleep lol and I was thinking of building a relationship with him who was literally physically incapable. Anyways, sorry not trying to hijack your post Silly but you've made a great point of how what we always want is not the best for us but then we panic. How long are we supposed to wait for the right thing? Will I ever even meet the right person? Hell, is there even a right person? Am I asking for too much? Well, these are the questions I ask myself and I am assuming some of you do too. So, for lack of better words we desperately try to hang on to unhealthy things and when that doesn't work we jump on to another not so healthy thing (psychic readings) as a coping mechanism and then it becomes a cycle. Sigh. Anyways, thanks again for sharing your story, I hope this is not the end and you will have a "happily ever after".

Fidget1028:
Truth. Dodging bullets is a good solid term. I've dodged a few and wish I've dodged more.

happyk:

--- Quote from: Fidget1028 on March 27, 2019, 01:45:41 AM ---Truth. Dodging bullets is a good solid term. I've dodged a few and wish I've dodged more.

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Oh but we don't dodge them even when we know we should and we can. We shoot ourselves. SMH.

Fidget1028:

--- Quote from: happyk on March 27, 2019, 01:52:00 AM ---
--- Quote from: Fidget1028 on March 27, 2019, 01:45:41 AM ---Truth. Dodging bullets is a good solid term. I've dodged a few and wish I've dodged more.

--- End quote ---

Oh but we don't dodge them even when we know we should and we can. We shoot ourselves. SMH.

--- End quote ---

Well, we're works in progress...

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