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Red Flags That You Are Dealing With A Toxic Person
Miss Philosopher:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on January 22, 2019, 06:37:33 PM ---same to you, thanks for sharing! I follow a few pages on instagram about narcissist awareness and it's amazing how I can relate to so many of the posts.
this is one of them:
https://www.instagram.com/narcopath__awareness/
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Just visited that instagram and wow...........thank you for sharing. I'm definitely following!
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on January 22, 2019, 06:59:42 PM ---
--- Quote from: sawthelight on January 22, 2019, 06:37:33 PM ---same to you, thanks for sharing! I follow a few pages on instagram about narcissist awareness and it's amazing how I can relate to so many of the posts.
this is one of them:
https://www.instagram.com/narcopath__awareness/
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Just visited that instagram and wow...........thank you for sharing. I'm definitely following!
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OMG I know! you're welcome! I can relate to everything on there. Really makes you think. and when I have a moment of weakness I re-read.
It's so true that the only way to deal with those blood sucking parasites is NO CONTACT. literally the only way to regain your sanity.
sawthelight:
I've personally seen very self-confident, bad ass women be torn apart by narcissistic, toxic men. It doesn't matter how you are when you meet them, it's more how they weasel their way in and try to destroy a person. At the end of the day, i agree with you though, the stronger you are, the less you will fall victim to these types.
I certainly am not the the type to be manipulated by a man or anyone really but that first guy really threw me for a loop and that's why I got sucked into psychic readings in the first place. Kind of like "am I nuts" type thing..why am I putting myself through this? I KNOW better.
While it's always good to be strong and self assured, unfortunately a lot of the time, these men prey on women like this. How you react is key. I don't put up with any BS anymore..
Miss Philosopher:
Honestly, the stronger women are exactly what the narcs and psychopaths prefer. That's a challenge for them. They want to control that which appears to not be able to be controlled. They love it when they can break a strong woman. They don't tend to target weak women. They tend to target those with at least average self esteem, independent, but at the same time those that have a good heart. They like to target the outgoing, fun loving folks.
However, on the flip side of that, there are definitely some that look for the easily influenced weaker individuals that are already psychologically damaged big time. There seems to be different types of these toxic cluster B personality types.
Me personally, I considered myself pretty damn strong due to all the shit I've been through when I met this guy. I was also his "favorite person" in the beginning when we were just friends. He came to me with all his problems, making himself out to be the victim of everyone, even the universe he used to say was conspiring against him. LOL. Nevertheless, it's when you start getting involved on a more intimate level is when they really start to deceive. You don't even know it's happening, or else you feel something is off but somehow they convince you to ignore it and make you feel like you're just paranoid because of your past bad experiences. These people are genius at the art of manipulation and deceit. Before you know it, you're completely destroyed and have nooooooooooo idea what happened to the person that you previously referred to as "yourself".
It's hard. It's so damn hard.
ladya:
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on January 22, 2019, 07:48:57 PM ---Honestly, the stronger women are exactly what the narcs and psychopaths prefer. That's a challenge for them. They want to control that which appears to not be able to be controlled. They love it when they can break a strong woman. They don't tend to target weak women. They tend to target those with at least average self esteem, independent, but at the same time those that have a good heart. They like to target the outgoing, fun loving folks.
However, on the flip side of that, there are definitely some that look for the easily influenced weaker individuals that are already psychologically damaged big time. There seems to be different types of these toxic cluster B personality types.
Me personally, I considered myself pretty damn strong due to all the shit I've been through when I met this guy. I was also his "favorite person" in the beginning when we were just friends. He came to me with all his problems, making himself out to be the victim of everyone, even the universe he used to say was conspiring against him. LOL. Nevertheless, it's when you start getting involved on a more intimate level is when they really start to deceive. You don't even know it's happening, or else you feel something is off but somehow they convince you to ignore it and make you feel like you're just paranoid because of your past bad experiences. These people are genius at the art of manipulation and deceit. Before you know it, you're completely destroyed and have nooooooooooo idea what happened to the person that you previously referred to as "yourself".
It's hard. It's so damn hard.
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I could see that. Im sorry you went through that :/
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