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Super Frustrated and Should Know Better
Miss Philosopher:
@Star1: At this point, I don't even think it would really make a difference. 5 years is a long time to waste on one person waiting for them to decide to finally "choose you" over everything else and over everyone else. 5 years of breadcrumbs and trying to trust a person that has proven time and time again that they cannot be trusted just makes me an idiot really. That's my fault though. I should have cared about myself more than that but for whatever reason, I guess I didn't. I don't know. I'm really confused right now. Hopefully more clarity will come soon.
star1:
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--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on November 28, 2018, 02:14:04 AM ---That's what I FEEL in my own gut and that's what my regulars tell me anyway and they're always right for me for years.
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Going with your gut always best. I always had this stuff happen when my regular readers were not available and I tried someone new. They would flip flop and misinterpret things all over the place. I had readers tell me no the ex was not involved with anyone. Then next time they would say, yes he is. And they would describe women who were either relatives, or married friends, or sometimes I swear they were just making crap up because it would be something that didn't sound like him at all.
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Yep. You call them and they say he loves you, is coming back and misses you. Call them second time: he loves you still, but he's chatting to people but nothing has/is going to happen, because he loves you. Third call: he's with someone. But they're not happy, he's leaving her for you. Happened sooo many times.
Miss Philosopher:
@stilltired: I completely agree. I wish I would have listened to it 5 years ago. But, because of psychic readings, I didn't. I was talking to other readers besides my go to's at that time. 5 years ago it told me to steer clear and I felt like I knew how he was but I ignored it, made excuses and told myself that it wasn't fair to judge without experiencing first.
7 months ago, my gut said it was the last time I'd see said person again either forever, or for a very long time to come. Not sure if that was just my gut knowing that I'd had enough way back then, or something else. Either way, I felt it so strongly. It's hard for me to get outside of my emotions though and really "hear" my gut. This has always been a problem for me.
Miss Philosopher:
@Star1: That's some seriously real talk. That is usually how it happens and so what's the point. So, I know what's coming in the next few months........more bullshit and a bit of "reconciling" only to be more bullshit right after. The bullshit just seems to increase and get worse as the years go on. So yeah, what's the point. I'm tired of it all now.
star1:
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on November 28, 2018, 02:49:21 AM ---@Star1: At this point, I don't even think it would really make a difference. 5 years is a long time to waste on one person waiting for them to decide to finally "choose you" over everything else and over everyone else. 5 years of breadcrumbs and trying to trust a person that has proven time and time again that they cannot be trusted just makes me an idiot really. That's my fault though. I should have cared about myself more than that but for whatever reason, I guess I didn't. I don't know. I'm really confused right now. Hopefully more clarity will come soon.
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I think it's because these readers do the whole "he just needs to be mature and he can be the perfect man for you", line. Then before you know it, 5 years have passed. I can't believe how much time I've wasted on this fella. I promised myself it'd be alot less, and here I am. I know that we have had our disagreements, but nobody deserves to be treated badly. Yes, it is none of my business and no I won't post about your situation as it's not my place to, but you do not deserve to be treated like that. Find you someone who supports you with the getting outside if you're ready for it, and someone who treats you like a lady - not a woman. But he came into your life for reasons, to perhaps get tougher and stronger in life.. Life begins at 40!
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