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Alison
light:
I agree greengrlx333: That was the most accurate statement ever made that for sure had some calming effect on my nerves...it makes so much sense..lol
bluesgirl23:
I also agree that men have a different sense of time than women do. But, I also think that most men still have that innate desire to conquer things. Women included. I guess it comes from the hunter/gatherer time. I have tried the following scenario many times & it works. A guy will eventually call. Well, I am conveniently unavailable. So, two or three days may go by & then I may return his call. Drives 'em nuts. They start to wonder why you aren't available. Or, you may answer the next time he calls & you say that you are quite busy & is it ok if you call him back or that he may call you on Fri or Sat if that is convenient for them. I'm telling you, these men need to feel like they are chasing us & we have lives. They will find a way to be involved if they are interested or we will eventually find someone who is. Just my opinion for the day for what it's worth. But, what if we all tried it & see how it works. I know it has worked for me numerous times.
positivethoughts2:
bluesgirl - Such good advise and I wish I could do it. lol.
Lately I haven't been as friendly or forthcoming on the phone. That's as far as I've gotten and it does seem to help a bit. Maybe I'll graduate to not picking up the phone one day. Last time we spoke he actually called me right back after we hung up because I think he was thinking - wtf
Also - I don't respond to his emails right away anymore. I try and let 1/2 a day go by at least. I know that doesn't seem like much but I used to respond immediately. I'm getting there.....
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tippyrose1:
Blues & pt2...its tippy...I know its probably not the place to ask...but when I looked at ur posts this am about the men wanting to chase and how we need to be a bit aloof...I totally agree...and I'm having a major meltdown right now....my guy that I have been seeing for the last 6 months just disappeared 2 weeks ago....everything was fine...we never hadd a fight...we always talked..had fun, great chemistry...and I never did do the calling or texting...and he told me how much he appreciated thae fact that I wasn't blowing up his phone etc...and even though this guy is very much a loner...and has some issues with partying...he always seemed very honest...and did tell me that he loved our relationship and had no desire for any other women...but still...he is gone. I have talked to my 3 favorites...william says that its not over...he cares deeply but he's depressed right now and will probably contact me by the end of the month...dawn says that he's crazy about me...but the addiction cards have come up and he has strong intent to contact but may not for a week or two...alison...whom I've been calling forever for like a year...said yesterday and has alwways said that she never sees him leaving the relationship and he has started to realize that he loves me and doesn't like the feeling of not being able to control that...(this guy is very much a loner..and I'm not sure he has ever loved)...but she said that he will contact within days....well to say the least I am still in knots...and almost called him this am on my way to work....not to yell or anything...its not my nature...but just to say hi,,hope everything is ok..etc...what should I do you guys....I am just crazy about him and I see it in his eyes and feel it in his touch that he feels it too...and so I don't understand. Thanks...tippy xoxo
positivethoughts2:
ohhh tippy - big hug
I don't have any advise because on one hand, it is in our nature to reach out to someone who is having issues and the "normal" and right thing to do. On the other hand, some guys will retreat even further if we reach out to them. So reaching out to him is a risk and I would only do so after a major psychic rampage where everyone says it is ok to do so. lol. But seriously, if they all already said he is reaching out to you maybe you can hang in there and try not to do it for a few days. You might feel such a strong pull to do it because he is thinking about doing it. These guys - I tell you......ugh
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