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Alison
positivethoughts2:
cocoapple - I know how you feel and the waiting is brutal but I have some info to share on this. What I've learned is that when all of the psychics are basically giving you the same general timeframe for him to contact you, he is thinking about doing it - probably on the edge of picking up the phone - then puts it off. So they see strong intent but then he backs away. I'm sure we've all done the same thing ourselves (about to do something then we change our mind or put it off etc). I know - very very very frustrating. The psychics are showing us what the person will probably do. Nothing is definite. Some psychics are better then others at seeing intent vs. action. I feel like really good tarot readers (like a Vicki Joy) can see action - not just intent.
pt
cocoapple:
PT- i understand what you are saying. It's just so frustrating...especially when Allison is 'known' for her timelines. I know Tippy shares this frustration with me as well. After June came and gone...i feel that NONE of the ones i read with were true at all. I mean, if he intent to contact but didn't...does that mean he'll never? I just don't believe in it anymore. I've read with Vicki Joy as well and her timelines too have came and gone. And i'm not being whinny about a few days overdue......it's been well over a month overdue. That's why i don't call back again. I called her i think 3-4 times....before and after....and then after the first timeline passed. Gosh i was so hopeless and desperate. I know nothing is definite, but then again we're not calling psychics and spending thousands of dollars for them to read our past and present situations now are we? It's super frustrating when you dump all that money and have nothing to show for.
What i also don't understand is that before when i read with these readers about our relationship and where it is heading, NONE of them saw this break up coming. Didn't see the fight.....nor did they see the end. They all said stuff like we'll find jobs, we'll move in together and be happy etc. Yes Dawn sees the break up but after i told her we had a fight and he's been not talking to me. Just weeks prior i spoke to Gail and she gave me the bold predictions like 'he's the one you are going to marry, be careful about pregnancy etc.'. Two weeks later with the break up and i call her back, she said he wants to date other people etc. I don't understand how this all works anymore~~!!!!! Ahhhhh!!!! :-\!!
positivethoughts2:
cocoapple - sucks sucks sucks - but they are all seeing something. The timing is off for all of them and that seems to be typical. I bet the timing has been wrong with every person who reads this board. I know Allison was good for me with dates of phone calls or emails but anything more then that she was wrong. Every single reader has had the wrong timeline for me. I will say (CSK) it's been over the past month that things have FINALLY started to pick up a bit. I was told I would be in a committed relationship by the end of last January. It is now July and although I know he isn't dating anyone, we aren't in a committed relationship - not even close.
I know a month seems like forever. I remember thinking - I can't believe I haven't heard from SM in a month. I am the biggest a-hole for sitting here waiting, etc etc etc. I even started dating other people. I also thought all of the psychic were wrong, wasted my money, etc etc etc. But I still followed their advise and.........
SM and I haven't "turned the corner" but we do communicate on a more regular basis and it isn't about surface stuff - he has really let me in and opened up about some very personal stuff going on. Now he just has to be a big boy and start up the romantic side of things. I'm fully letting him take the lead. We've almost come back together as friends which has been GREAT because for after we started talking again I was afraid he would come looking for some "action" without commitment and I'm not making that mistake again. So stay tuned..............
My expectations are still low and I'm taking it one day at a time. I also get frustrated because he is as slow as a turtle and there are many days I think he isn't ever going to turn the corner. But I don't ask, I don't push, I don't ever call him. The predicted timing of all of this has been way off but the facts have been right and I still to this day follow the psychic's advise because it seems to be working for me.
I don't know coco - I do know a lot of us have been in your shoes and it SUCKS
optx88:
I feel your frustrations Coco. I am sure we all do.
Exactly what PT explained to you, was the same that has been explained to me over and over again by the readers. They think about contacting you...but for whatever reason they don't
I have been told that my guy is a procrastinator (i can't tell you how much i hate that word lol)
But try to keep this in mind...guys have almost no concept of time. I seriously believe that they think that time just pauses and they can hit unhit the pause button whenever they want...and then eventually...it hits them that so much time has passed. They also get very easily distracted.
My first reading with CP was with Natalie towards the end of June...I crossed paths with him like she said...and then her and the other readers gave me the same info...but the time frames were all over the place and I was beyond frustrated...I finally heard from him in mid November...some were dead on...and others were very off. You just have to let the time frames go in one ear and out the other.
Give the readings a break. Try not to get a reading for 2 to 3 weeks and keep yourself busy with other stuff. Everytime he pops into your head...think of something else to distract you.
When, and if you are ready to read again...post it on here under a new post and maybe go with someone that you haven't read with....but no matter what...you have us here for support.
Elaan:
lol...greengrlx333...guys have not concept of time. That is the funniest thing. Sooooo true!
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