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Just FYI:

--- Quote from: FlutterShy on November 13, 2018, 05:04:29 PM ---
- Something I have to remind myself again and again: Peoples thoughts are none of my business. They’re just not. This one seems harsh but respecting my boundaries sanity and individuality my every waking thoughts are sometimes just garbage and nonsense. My actions speak louder about the person I am. The same for my loved ones. Their every waking thoughts about me isn’t my business, it isn’t personal, their actions will speak of how they “feel” about me.



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This is so true! I started feeling differently about asking how people think about me when I thought about how I'd feel if the tables were turned. I value my privacy and realized it's not anyone else's business what I really think of them. Personally, I can't stand drama where someone accuses me of thinking X about them when really I don't think that about them at all! While I try, try, TRY to remind myself that I want to respect my own boundaries and others' boundaries by not invading their private thoughts with a psychic reading, it's SO HARD.

Every time I don't seek out psychic insights, it's a little more of a test into living life and taking interactions at face value.

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