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Fidget1028:
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--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on May 05, 2019, 09:27:47 PM ---Aww thanks Miss P!
Yes I TOTALLY AGREE! It’s like all these improvements are only for the short term and then it goes right back into inconsistency. Inconsistency is the death of me - I swear almost every guy Ive dated is like that and it’s ANNOYING.
And unfortunately the NEW GUY didnt last long....Cookie told me he was going to be inconsistent and well HE IS. Last I spoke to him was Friday (I sent a text) and he has not responded. So there is that. Usually when guys start off this way, it stays this way. So oh well to the new guy!
To add to this, Mattie saw specific things related to this New Guy that were talked about but didnt necessarily HAPPEN.
1) The walk or hike - he was the only guy (the new guy) were we talked about doing this (I typically don’t date a bunch of outdoorsy guys so I know this is him) but IT NEVER HAPPENED.
2) She said this guy would talk about going out and wanted to get married one day -Yep this was him (but I guess this is what guys say now days to hook girls - shame)
3) She said I would be welcoming this guy home - he has been at a distance - Well, he was on a trip last weekend, he came back and I saw him (I didnt welcome him home at all - we were in contact)....but then he had to go on another trip (Thursday to Tues) this weekend and I haven’t heard anything. So I dont think Ill be welcoming him home or ANYTHING. Mattie kept picking him up on a trip or at a distance, but totally didnt pick up on inconsistency like COOKIE. She really was having trouble seeing either if it was the POI or the New Guy that was going to start to come forward - but after listening it sounded like the new guy...either way, BOTH aren’t doing JACK.
So basically I’m back at square-one and dont consider myself dating ANYONE.
I’m surprised that YONA didnt pick up that I’d consider myself single at this point, usually she is correct on that.
Yona, Kisha, Mattie and Indio see a relationship before the end of the year (Indio thinks its with SOMEONE, not necessarily the POI)
Cookie - sees NO relationship at all this year. But she did say she saw a guy who would come in and want marriage - well whenever that is.
Based on what is going on right now, COOKIE is in the LEAD.
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on May 04, 2019, 01:55:55 AM ---I'm sorry you're going through that but also glad that you aren't torn up emotionally about it and that you have a new POI in your life.
I was told so many times that things would improve and he would make xyz effort, and it did happen, but it only lasted like a week or two then back to the same old crap for a few months. It definitely gets old especially when the "improvements" and "efforts" last one or two weeks but the distance and the rest of the crap seems to last months. A few weeks just doesn't seem worth it to me and then over time after repeating that same cycle for so damn long, feelings naturally dissipate. They don't leave you with anything to feel about them other than exhausted by the inconsistent bullshit.
My situation is the same. He came forth, put in some baseline efforts, that lasted a few weeks, now back to the same old distance stuff and rarely communicating. The new guy that Kisha and Kira told me I would meet in April did not appear. So, all in all, everything's been an epic fail for me so far. But I'm sure glad you have a new one. That should help totally get past the old one. Good luck and keep us posted! Blessings to you!
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Sorry it turned out this way, but it sounds like you're in a decent place with it. It's amazing that Cookie of all readers is in the lead...
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Thanks Fidget....yeah I’d say I’m in a decent place. I try not to hold on to inconsistent men or predictions...it makes it a bit easier to let go. I’m surprised but not surprised about Cookie. She has consistently been able to predict which men would stay or leave or be inconsistent. She said even tho my POI is inconsistent he is still in my life for while, which is annoying.
Typically Yona is right for me (actually I’d give it to Yona, then Cookie and Kisha as a tie for me) then Indio....
So with Yona, unless there is another POI that magically has a baby mama situation where he is taking her to court or vice versa I dont see this happening. As a matter of fact - hell no, I’m not going to date anyone in this type of situation again lol. They will have to have all of that sorted out.
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Kisha has been pretty good for me despite the hate she can get. Yona and Cookie are too soon to say. They seemed a little general to me. Have you ever read with Micah? I'm not encouraging you, just curious. His reading had a lot of validations and the info/predictions on my POI were almost exactly the same as Kisha.
Sparkle002:
--- Quote from: Fidget1028 on May 06, 2019, 01:46:06 AM ---
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on May 06, 2019, 12:05:13 AM ---
--- Quote from: Fidget1028 on May 05, 2019, 11:39:16 PM ---
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on May 05, 2019, 09:27:47 PM ---Aww thanks Miss P!
Yes I TOTALLY AGREE! It’s like all these improvements are only for the short term and then it goes right back into inconsistency. Inconsistency is the death of me - I swear almost every guy Ive dated is like that and it’s ANNOYING.
And unfortunately the NEW GUY didnt last long....Cookie told me he was going to be inconsistent and well HE IS. Last I spoke to him was Friday (I sent a text) and he has not responded. So there is that. Usually when guys start off this way, it stays this way. So oh well to the new guy!
To add to this, Mattie saw specific things related to this New Guy that were talked about but didnt necessarily HAPPEN.
1) The walk or hike - he was the only guy (the new guy) were we talked about doing this (I typically don’t date a bunch of outdoorsy guys so I know this is him) but IT NEVER HAPPENED.
2) She said this guy would talk about going out and wanted to get married one day -Yep this was him (but I guess this is what guys say now days to hook girls - shame)
3) She said I would be welcoming this guy home - he has been at a distance - Well, he was on a trip last weekend, he came back and I saw him (I didnt welcome him home at all - we were in contact)....but then he had to go on another trip (Thursday to Tues) this weekend and I haven’t heard anything. So I dont think Ill be welcoming him home or ANYTHING. Mattie kept picking him up on a trip or at a distance, but totally didnt pick up on inconsistency like COOKIE. She really was having trouble seeing either if it was the POI or the New Guy that was going to start to come forward - but after listening it sounded like the new guy...either way, BOTH aren’t doing JACK.
So basically I’m back at square-one and dont consider myself dating ANYONE.
I’m surprised that YONA didnt pick up that I’d consider myself single at this point, usually she is correct on that.
Yona, Kisha, Mattie and Indio see a relationship before the end of the year (Indio thinks its with SOMEONE, not necessarily the POI)
Cookie - sees NO relationship at all this year. But she did say she saw a guy who would come in and want marriage - well whenever that is.
Based on what is going on right now, COOKIE is in the LEAD.
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on May 04, 2019, 01:55:55 AM ---I'm sorry you're going through that but also glad that you aren't torn up emotionally about it and that you have a new POI in your life.
I was told so many times that things would improve and he would make xyz effort, and it did happen, but it only lasted like a week or two then back to the same old crap for a few months. It definitely gets old especially when the "improvements" and "efforts" last one or two weeks but the distance and the rest of the crap seems to last months. A few weeks just doesn't seem worth it to me and then over time after repeating that same cycle for so damn long, feelings naturally dissipate. They don't leave you with anything to feel about them other than exhausted by the inconsistent bullshit.
My situation is the same. He came forth, put in some baseline efforts, that lasted a few weeks, now back to the same old distance stuff and rarely communicating. The new guy that Kisha and Kira told me I would meet in April did not appear. So, all in all, everything's been an epic fail for me so far. But I'm sure glad you have a new one. That should help totally get past the old one. Good luck and keep us posted! Blessings to you!
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Sorry it turned out this way, but it sounds like you're in a decent place with it. It's amazing that Cookie of all readers is in the lead...
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Thanks Fidget....yeah I’d say I’m in a decent place. I try not to hold on to inconsistent men or predictions...it makes it a bit easier to let go. I’m surprised but not surprised about Cookie. She has consistently been able to predict which men would stay or leave or be inconsistent. She said even tho my POI is inconsistent he is still in my life for while, which is annoying.
Typically Yona is right for me (actually I’d give it to Yona, then Cookie and Kisha as a tie for me) then Indio....
So with Yona, unless there is another POI that magically has a baby mama situation where he is taking her to court or vice versa I dont see this happening. As a matter of fact - hell no, I’m not going to date anyone in this type of situation again lol. They will have to have all of that sorted out.
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Kisha has been pretty good for me despite the hate she can get. Yona and Cookie are too soon to say. They seemed a little general to me. Have you ever read with Micah? I'm not encouraging you, just curious. His reading had a lot of validations and the info/predictions on my POI were almost exactly the same as Kisha.
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Haven’t read with Micah
I believe Kisha’s negatives 100%...even tho some of her positives have come through ...I say “some” because when i started with her she was 50/50 in the readings ....the first half was right and second was wrong. So, what I’ve seen is if her predictions match Yona’s they tend to come true...only in tandem tho. Funny, in this case, their predictions are the same but i feel it’s impossible...or if it does happen and i say yes to commitment it probably won’t last but a week lol! But at least predictively it came true
Miss Philosopher:
@Sparkle: I'm sorry the new guy ended up being a flake. It's so hard to find anyone that's not a flake these days anymore. Especially the older we get, well, for me anyway. I'm starting to believe all the negatives in readings but never the positives. It's like, now, if I get any positives, I don't even pay attention anymore. When I get negatives, I'm like yep, welp, I already know that's going to happen then. So for me, I'm like why am I even wasting my money on readings anymore. I'm gonna get a general from Kisha though in a week or so. That's gonna be my last one for a long while. Last general I got was November 21st and it went up to May. So, gonna have one more for the next however long. Outside of that, sort of lost all faith in readings.
Sparkle002:
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on May 06, 2019, 04:49:16 PM ---@Sparkle: I'm sorry the new guy ended up being a flake. It's so hard to find anyone that's not a flake these days anymore. Especially the older we get, well, for me anyway. I'm starting to believe all the negatives in readings but never the positives. It's like, now, if I get any positives, I don't even pay attention anymore. When I get negatives, I'm like yep, welp, I already know that's going to happen then. So for me, I'm like why am I even wasting my money on readings anymore. I'm gonna get a general from Kisha though in a week or so. That's gonna be my last one for a long while. Last general I got was November 21st and it went up to May. So, gonna have one more for the next however long. Outside of that, sort of lost all faith in readings.
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I’m sooo with you on that! I just feel the negatives are true and the positives are not or if they are they last for a short while
Sparkle002:
All, I ended the situationship with my POI today. It honestly was unexpected. I didn’t plan to do this.
But it happened in a natural way. He finally came to see me after 5 weeks and after discussing different topics he wanted to have sex. I said it wasn’t going to happen. He said he thought we were on the same page and I looked him in the eye and said my page has turned. I’m ready for something more and it doesn’t have to be with you. You are free to do what you like as its your life. Basically we ended cordially. He wants to be free and I want to be caught. And we both respect each other’s wishes.
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