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Sparkle002:
--- Quote from: greekgeek on May 10, 2019, 06:28:38 AM ---Oh Sparkle. It sounds like you're standing strong, keeping your head up high. You've always struck me as someone solid and grounded. May not be of much solace for now, but all will be OK and what you said to POI was so true. Sending you big virtual (((hugs)))
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Thanks gg!
hope36:
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on May 10, 2019, 05:56:33 AM ---All, I ended the situationship with my POI today. It honestly was unexpected. I didn’t plan to do this.
But it happened in a natural way. He finally came to see me after 5 weeks and after discussing different topics he wanted to have sex. I said it wasn’t going to happen. He said he thought we were on the same page and I looked him in the eye and said my page has turned. I’m ready for something more and it doesn’t have to be with you. You are free to do what you like as its your life. Basically we ended cordially. He wants to be free and I want to be caught. And we both respect each other’s wishes.
THE END
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Good luck Sparkle!! Am glad it ended cordially and not in a nasty way, and you kept your head!!
Much love xoxoxox!!!
Sparkle002:
--- Quote from: hope36 on May 10, 2019, 01:56:19 PM ---
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on May 10, 2019, 05:56:33 AM ---All, I ended the situationship with my POI today. It honestly was unexpected. I didn’t plan to do this.
But it happened in a natural way. He finally came to see me after 5 weeks and after discussing different topics he wanted to have sex. I said it wasn’t going to happen. He said he thought we were on the same page and I looked him in the eye and said my page has turned. I’m ready for something more and it doesn’t have to be with you. You are free to do what you like as its your life. Basically we ended cordially. He wants to be free and I want to be caught. And we both respect each other’s wishes.
THE END
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Good luck Sparkle!! Am glad it ended cordially and not in a nasty way, and you kept your head!!
Much love xoxoxox!!!
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Thanks hope!
Miss Philosopher:
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on May 10, 2019, 05:56:33 AM ---All, I ended the situationship with my POI today. It honestly was unexpected. I didn’t plan to do this.
But it happened in a natural way. He finally came to see me after 5 weeks and after discussing different topics he wanted to have sex. I said it wasn’t going to happen. He said he thought we were on the same page and I looked him in the eye and said my page has turned. I’m ready for something more and it doesn’t have to be with you. You are free to do what you like as its your life. Basically we ended cordially. He wants to be free and I want to be caught. And we both respect each other’s wishes.
THE END
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I'm sorry things didn't work out with the new one. But, good for you girl! You did the right thing and looked out for yourself! So many of us would have kept going with that situation hoping for it to turn into something more and putting up with things we aren't happy about for a long period of time. I probably would've cause I have issues with boundary setting. I'm proud of you! You inspire me!
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on May 10, 2019, 02:18:06 PM ---
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on May 10, 2019, 05:56:33 AM ---All, I ended the situationship with my POI today. It honestly was unexpected. I didn’t plan to do this.
But it happened in a natural way. He finally came to see me after 5 weeks and after discussing different topics he wanted to have sex. I said it wasn’t going to happen. He said he thought we were on the same page and I looked him in the eye and said my page has turned. I’m ready for something more and it doesn’t have to be with you. You are free to do what you like as its your life. Basically we ended cordially. He wants to be free and I want to be caught. And we both respect each other’s wishes.
THE END
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I'm sorry things didn't work out with the new one. But, good for you girl! You did the right thing and looked out for yourself! So many of us would have kept going with that situation hoping for it to turn into something more and putting up with things we aren't happy about for a long period of time. I probably would've cause I have issues with boundary setting. I'm proud of you! You inspire me!
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i agree, good luck Sparkle..sorry to hear the disappointing news, but I think you did the right thing!
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