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aquarian_81:
So my POI has disappeared in the last 6 weeks which has left me feeling confused, frustrated, and somewhat depressed. This man has been in my life for 2 years, and it's been a start and stop relationship. I'm 37 years old, and I have never met anyone that I've had a surreal connection with. I know this connection resonates with him.

This is not the first time he's gone silent, and as per usual I reached out to a handful of popular psychics including my go to, searching for some clarity and answers regarding my POI's behaviors. Generally most of the readings I have had, have been positive, stating that he does have deep feelings for me and he is eager to pursue me and make it work, however, due to the distance and logistics, he has been hesitant on his end (we both live in different countries). Some readers have been very fairytale like indicating that we have a powerful connection, and he even considers marriage in the future.  ::)
 
Today, I received my first negative reading from Micah, but I do feel that Micah's prediction aligns to how my POI is currently behaving. How do you guys deal with a negative reading?  Have you experienced a negative reading or outcome that did not pass?? It is so confusing when you receive an opposite reading from another psychic. I think for now I am going to take a break from psychics, and just leave this situation to the universe.

star1:
Having psychic readings, you will usually get bad news. I've noticed a pattern on here that people get negative readings and then come on here, ask others about the reading in the hope that they go "Well don't worry. They were crap for me, anyway", and it calms them. I know, because I've done it. But having readings, usually you will get bad news. The best thing to do (very easy to say) is to try and put it aside. Either use it to help you to move on, or put it to the side because there is a possibility that they could be wrong. Just because a reader is negative - doesn't mean that they're correct, also.

Chelle9054:
Well said. Negative doesn't equal correct. It plays on fear 1st and changes our own energy and intuition. Ever notice if you get a negative reading and try to get another to feel better and it is still another negative one? If we get amped up and psyched out that reading was bad, our energy is in a negative place and a good psychic can maybe pick up on that. Slippery slope for sure.

star1:

--- Quote from: Chelle9054 on November 08, 2018, 10:56:03 PM ---Well said. Negative doesn't equal correct. It plays on fear 1st and changes our own energy and intuition. Ever notice if you get a negative reading and try to get another to feel better and it is still another negative one? If we get amped up and psyched out that reading was bad, our energy is in a negative place and a good psychic can maybe pick up on that. Slippery slope for sure.

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Readings are bloody confusing, lol.

11jlady:
Yeah. I learned that getting too many readings from too many different people will cause the WORST emotional roller coaster ever. I say that if you spoke with one or two that have been super accurate and things actually happened that they said would, stick to those and that's it. If you go reading with a bunch more for confirmation of the prior one or two, you'll drive yourself insane and put yourself on the worst emotional roller coaster ever. That's how it was for me anyway. I stick to the two that have been right for me for years and years. When I did go try others for my "fix" in the in between, it messed me up emotionally and I'm pretty sure they were full of shit anyway. Like star said, negative doesn't mean correct.

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