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How do you deal with a negative reading

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Lady_C:

--- Quote from: aquarian_81 on November 08, 2018, 10:43:24 PM ---So my POI has disappeared in the last 6 weeks which has left me feeling confused, frustrated, and somewhat depressed. This man has been in my life for 2 years, and it's been a start and stop relationship. I'm 37 years old, and I have never met anyone that I've had a surreal connection with. I know this connection resonates with him.

This is not the first time he's gone silent, and as per usual I reached out to a handful of popular psychics including my go to, searching for some clarity and answers regarding my POI's behaviors. Generally most of the readings I have had, have been positive, stating that he does have deep feelings for me and he is eager to pursue me and make it work, however, due to the distance and logistics, he has been hesitant on his end (we both live in different countries). Some readers have been very fairytale like indicating that we have a powerful connection, and he even considers marriage in the future.  ::)
 
Today, I received my first negative reading from Micah, but I do feel that Micah's prediction aligns to how my POI is currently behaving. How do you guys deal with a negative reading?  Have you experienced a negative reading or outcome that did not pass?? It is so confusing when you receive an opposite reading from another psychic. I think for now I am going to take a break from psychics, and just leave this situation to the universe.

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Yup! You take that break from those psychics and I promise you will feel a weight lifted off your shoulder. I stopped having reading for now, I got too engrossed in what they told me, some wad good and some was bad news. I took what I needed to from the negative reading because there was some truth in it. I think it's inevitable that going to multiple psychics for a reading will results in a mixture of outcome/predictions. Does more hard then good in the long run!!

bstalling:
a few negative readings ended up being right for me. like anything else, you take it stride. I have deveoped a pretty accurate way of detecting BS tho. So, even if its "negative" I can often hear the truth in it. After all, not everything in life is gravy. And if negative readings hurt you, you have to check why you are calling..and its usually to hear that everything will be OK.

star1:
The thing is, is a reader good just because they're telling you bad news? I think doom and gloom readers are just as bad as sugarcoater readers. Why? Because anyone can say, "he can't commit", "you're too good for him", "he won't change". Also, if they're using opinion on your situation and telling multiple people the same thing, then they're not giving genuine info. It's recycling readings. If I'm being given bad news, I can accept it but want validated evidence. I want a little more than, "yeah. He has A, B & C issues". Yeah, I get it (that's why I'm calling. He must have SOME issue), but I want you to back up why you're getting that info. I want to know more, so I know you're just not recycling the reading. Just like if a reader gives you good news, you want evidence of validating, otherwise you'll think they're a fairy reader. So far, all of the readings that have been negative have been just as bad as positive ones. The same guesswork and barnum. If a reader can break you bad news, but give you deep rooted reasons like "This happened with his ex partner", or "in his childhood, I sense that so and so happened" and go into detail, then that's a backed up reading and something you know that isn't easy to guess.

I've only had 2 negative readings so far and they've both been readers who are doom and gloom or don't like being positive about relationships..

bstalling:
well, i actually got some form of validation or "this will happen before that" then you will know. So, they did give a reasoning. I guess a negative reading isnt that bad when they give you detailed when, where, why info.

star1:

--- Quote from: bstalling on November 10, 2018, 12:06:45 AM ---well, i actually got some form of validation or "this will happen before that" then you will know. So, they did give a reasoning. I guess a negative reading isnt that bad when they give you detailed when, where, why info.

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Yeah, that's what I mean. I agree. When they validate well and explain why it won't work out, I can accept it. I haven't sadly had anything like that, yet. Just general stuff that when I come onto the board, they've told others the same stuff.

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