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candiednut:

--- Quote from: bstalling on November 03, 2018, 10:07:30 PM ---candiednut, I'm surprised you went on chat with her at her rate.

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I didn't, I recorded the call and I'm transcribing it.

star1:

--- Quote from: candiednut on November 03, 2018, 10:04:35 PM ---Here is my reading with Mattie (names and birth dates have been changed for privacy)
P = psychic (Mattie)
M = me

P: Can I have your name?
M: Hi Mattie, this is Serena.
P: Oh Hi Serena, nice to talk to you. Can I just ask you lovely, what is your date of birth? Not the year, just the date.
M: Yes, January 15th.
P: January 15th. Have I worked with you before?
M: Yes we have.
P: Oh lovely. What can I look into for you today lovely, whats going on?
M: Yes. So I have um an ex boyfriend, his name is Kevin. We havent talked for like..a really long time, 4 to 5 years. And he just contacted me out of the blue, like once a month ago and another time 2 days ago, and i"m just wondering what his intentions are?
P: Okay...lets have a look and see. Right..ok. I get the feeling that hes trying to...reconnect. I get the sense that, in a way, hes trying to work out whats going on with your life . You know, where you're at with your life. I think theres more communication coming. I get the feeling you're holding back, you're a little bit cautious..if that makes sense. Would understand that he just sort of disappeared, or kind of just let go, and you didnt quite see it coming...do you understand this?
M: um i think you're picking up on someone else...this is a different ex.
P: Ahhh...okay lets make sure we're tuning in with the right one then. Lets ask spirit to make sure Kevin...can I Just clear everybody else and just look at Kevin...umm...okay....ok, they're definitely giving me the 4-5 link so I think we are now looking at him. Would you understand that there was a bit of fear, around Kevin about commitment? Cuz I felt commitment was the issue...does that make sense?
M: Um...no, no, thats not the issue with him.
P: why do I feel...Serena, I dont think I'm linking with him for some reason, I'd rather you got another advisor, I dont want to read if its not the right one. For some reason they're not making it clear. Sorry about that
M: Yeah okay...would it help if I gave you his date of birth?
P: Um...lets try.
M: Ok, ok his birthdate is September 23rd.
P: Ok so hes a Libra isnt he.
M: yes
P: Ok....um...nice guy isnt he, hes a nice guy. I dont feel hes a player. I just dont know whether, in some ways, he..ooh, okay, be careful, I just feel with him, hes still a little bit uncertain, about what he wants okay. So I get the feeling, its about taking things slowly ok? There was somebody else around him, does this make sense lovely?
M: Sorry Mattie, I dont think you;re connecting to him, thats not the issue.
P: Ah..okay..because I just felt for some reason, I got a sense of uncertainty...um...what was the issue?
M: The issue was I was the one that cut it off, and hes not over me. And, its not because he, there wasnt anybody else.
P: Was there anyone else for you tho?
M: Yes, but its not like, that wasn't the reason for the break up.
P: Ah..okay. okay. Serena, get a refund lovely, because I'm not tuning in to you at all today, I get very blocked with you at the moment, my apologies um...
M: Okay.
P: I just feel for some reason, just a sense of uncertainty, maybe with you as well. I don't know. Thats the strong message I'm getting. There is more to come, but I don't feel hes necessarily going to be your happily ever after. Does that make sense?
M: *laughs* no no, I don't want him to be.
P: No, okay, okay, no, I don't feel hes very much..the guy..that you'll settle with, unfortunately, well fortunately for you, um, um, I just think theres somebody else coming um....and I just dont see that he is somebody you'll necessarily, um, I think theres a friendship, but I don't see you going back into that relationship.
M: No, I actually wanted to know if theres any way I can like, stop him from communicating with me, because I don't want anything to do with him.
P: Um...I think that in a way, it'll generally just burn out anyway. I think hes just trying his luck, when he realizes that you're not going to respond accordingly then I get the feeling he'll go. He'll go by the end of this month, I don't feel he'll persist. Um, I think there will be 3 more communications coming in then I think he'll realize and give up. So I mean, you know, I don't think you have to be rude, thats not in your nature anyway. But I would..I just get the feeling, he is just, maybe, feeling a bit uncertain about life and maybe he needs someone to kind of talk to or link to in a way. Or maybe you're the one that got away that he never completely got over...I think, you know, theres a realization deep down within him that you know, you're not gonna change your mind, but I just get the feeling that theres much more to come for you, in a different area, with a different guy.
M: Okay..um
P: Why are they talking about a different area though? different area...go on lovely what did you want to ask?
M: Yeah um I just wanted more clarification on him, cuz I do want him to be happy, its just never going to be me. Do you see him in a relationship in the future, or getting married or being successful?
P: I see he will...I get the feeling theres a Christina, or Christine or somebody that I feel..she may be a teacher, actually, or education related. I think actually, probably, around this time next year, theres somebody he'll have a short experience with...

TO BE CONTINUED...

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Wow.. It really seems like she wasn't getting your situation at all. Well, duh! To me, that sounded too generic.I'm not doubting she's a good reader, but that was very poor from compared to what has been said on here about her. It seems like career and other life areas are better? she *does* seem a little to be cold reading there and just guessworking because she got into a slight panic where she was getting things wrong and that's maybe where she began to falter the minute you said she was getting it wrong. For $13 a minute, I'm alarmed to give her a go on my situation. It's too risky if I cannot connect with her or she is similar with me.

flora0250:
I won’t attempt to speak to what happened with candienut’s call or anyone else’s experience but for me, for the convo went (almost word for word anyway):
Can I get your name and birthday, not year just day and month?
Sure it’s ——
Okay and is there something you’re calling about in particular?
Yes I’d like to ask about a relationship between me and a man named —-
Okay can I have his birthday?
Yes it’s —-
Okay. Now if I told you the phrase “on a break” would that make sense to you?

....

Which was the exact last words I texted my POI.

So I don’t know for me that validated a lot.

I just told her yes it absolutely did. And after that she went into a lot of specifics and details about the situation that I don’t have word for word but I know she couldn’t have known without a gift

As for predictions we’ll see but for me my experience was definitely very good with relationship reading. I don’t think she could have guessed or assumed the exact phase I said and had been mulling over and over in my mind like that. Just my experience for what it’s worth.

flora0250:

--- Quote from: PokeyPokes on November 03, 2018, 10:34:23 PM ---Flora that is a very common phrase and I am sure lot of people call in because they are on a break with person.

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I would agree if it were a different context where I had given any info at all that was leading and also the other info she gave me was very specific as I posted in the other thread and won’t rehash here. Again I’m just sharing my experience and I don’t need to defend it to anyone.

flora0250:

--- Quote from: PokeyPokes on November 03, 2018, 10:38:08 PM ---i do not know i just need hope right at this moment. i hope you are right.


--- Quote from: flora0250 on November 03, 2018, 10:36:56 PM ---
--- Quote from: PokeyPokes on November 03, 2018, 10:34:23 PM ---Flora that is a very common phrase and I am sure lot of people call in because they are on a break with person.

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I would agree if it were a different context where I had given any info at all that was leading and also the other info she gave me was very specific as I posted in the other thread and won’t rehash here. Again I’m just sharing my experience and I don’t need to defend it to anyone.

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I’m not saying she will be right for you or me or anyone. But I am saying I believe that she gave me info during that call anyway that she could not have known without a gift and maybe it was just the present and maybe the predictions won’t happen and maybe she’s not right for everyone all the time. But for me for that reading of the present she was. I hope things turn out well for you and wish you all the best.

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