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KotaSwan:
--- Quote from: candiednut on November 03, 2018, 10:25:03 PM ---Mattie reading continued....P=Mattie M=Me
P:.....that he'll have a very strong connection with. I'm sure shes got some sort of teaching or education link somewhere. And, I get the feeling yes, he will actually be in a committed relationship. I think he some ways, hes got some learning to do a little bit, about life and about love. Um, and I think that he will eventually find love and I do think he will settle. But I dont get the feeling hes in any hurry necessarily. But he is..hes quite a sweet guy isnt he, hes quite a nice guy, does that make sense?
M: *laughs* well...theres two sides to him, I guess when you first meet him you could call him a "nice guy".
P: I think ultimately..I don't think hes somebody that would, be a player, or...I just get the feeling theres something a little bit insecure about him. THats why I said he needs to learn...stuff that he needs to learn....and sort out. I get the feeling that he'll get counselling, but I think that could well be some sort of, stuff hes gonna look at doing. Which I think, maybe an option that would be quite helpful to him. But i just feel that, you...you have known him in a past life actually. theres some sort of karmic link here...so you were kind of meant to have understood each other or been together. Um, but I just feel, for him, i dont know, I just feel hes got a lot to learn, spirit is saying...but theres somebody ultimately that is quite nurturing, whos got an education link, and i think he will settle down with. Why are they giving me "sleepness in seattle"? thats a film isnt it? I cant remember what happened in it...OR, its a seattle link with him, or with this girl, i dont know, they just shouted seattle to me for some reason. Um, would you understand the name Tom, lovely, do you understand TOm?
M: Tom?
P: Yeah, do you know the name?
M: Um, I know a Tom, but we're not close or anything.
P: I wonder why its been mentioned...um...it could well be that somebody thats not somebody you know already. They just shouted Tom quite loudly for some reason, um, and maybe there is going to be some significance, but not yet. Um, I just feel with Kevin, there will be an understanding between you, that is going to put your mind at rest in some way. I do think he has struggled though, with different things, I do feel he will mature and kind of learn stuff as he goes forward. I think you will have, maybe a little bit of connection always, I dont think hes going to go completely away I just feel it might be you have a casual connection with communication.
M: Cuz I havent actually replied him at all...like Im just wondering like, do you see him still trying to communicate if I ignore him?
P: um..yes, they're giving me the number 3, so I think there could be 3 more attempts or something within 3 days. Um, and again, its up to you whether you choose to respond. I sort of dont see any harm in responding. Why do you feel you dont want to?
M: Because....
P: Are you worried about encouraging him?
M: yes, giving him false hope. Also because this was a very negative situation, he was stalking me and I don't want that energy in my life. *goes into a little bit of detail about it*
P: No..no..I mean, if thats the way you feel then go with your instinct because its telling you not to. But i do feel hes got a greater understanding now. And maybe thats why he sought therapy. Perhaps hes undergone some realization that his behavior with you was inappropriate, But i just think that *1 minute ding*
* didn't catch what she said
P: of love for you, or imagined love, if that makes sense. I think hes got a little bit carried away, almost to the point where it was a little bit delusional, does that make sense?
M: Yeah, do you see him backing off, carrying on with his life or do you see him relentlessly trying to like pursue something with me?
P: No, i think actually he knows his boundaries now, I think he has changed. I think he has..actually...theres a gentle tone with him now, not aggressive, I suppose he was a little bit mad in a way, because you do get mad sometimes with love in a way. But i just get the feeling he did seek help with that um, because I think he did struggle with the ending of the relationship. Perhaps in a way, he is now looking for ....*cuts off*
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What a bummer :( I was pretty excited an hopeful about Mattie. Time will tell if anything she said to me pans out or not :/
marciamia:
--- Quote from: PokeyPokes on November 04, 2018, 02:30:31 PM ---Any further update on mattie?
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🤦🏽♀️
journalmuse:
--- Quote from: marciamia on November 04, 2018, 02:38:43 PM ---
--- Quote from: PokeyPokes on November 04, 2018, 02:30:31 PM ---Any further update on mattie?
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🤦🏽♀️
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+1
marciamia:
--- Quote from: journalmuse on November 04, 2018, 06:13:55 PM ---
--- Quote from: marciamia on November 04, 2018, 02:38:43 PM ---
--- Quote from: PokeyPokes on November 04, 2018, 02:30:31 PM ---Any further update on mattie?
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🤦🏽♀️
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+1
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I can't, journal... I just can't :o
marciamia:
--- Quote from: candiednut on November 04, 2018, 06:24:45 PM ---
--- Quote from: marciamia on November 04, 2018, 02:38:43 PM ---
--- Quote from: PokeyPokes on November 04, 2018, 02:30:31 PM ---Any further update on mattie?
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🤦🏽♀️
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what does this mean? Can't see the emoji...
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