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They were all wrong
LiveLaughLove:
Yes lets hope we do all learn :) ;D
optx88:
Hi! Sorry...I have been in a sad place. I've been crying on and off for the past few days. I'm still so mad about what I found out. She is just not his type at all...and that bothers me even more. I just need to stop looking up stuff and checking to see what's going on (which is nothing) because I am just torturing myself.
Thank you all for your support. I really do appreciate it and it has helped.
4ever: I too had some things come true in regards to my ex. Basically all the little things did come true…but I am in one time frame and working towards another…and now with this “girlfriend” I just don’t see “the big picture” coming true.
“I know you’re devastated right now, and you need to cry it out. There is a song by Rascal Flatts that I like to listen to when Im down. Im sure you have heard it. Can’t remember the name of it but it tells you that you may bend til you break, but in the end you look up, wipe your hands, shake it off, then you stand. We all have to find the strength is us to shake it off and stand.”
This does explain it all…because that is who I am…but right now…I feel like I am kind of stuck on the ground and I just can’t seem to figure out how to get up…I’m sure this will pass…hopefully lol.
PT: I will definitely break things down and I was one step ahead of you…yes…I contacted Seha and Nina (who have been the most accurate) and I needed to tell them they were wrong.
My readers lately have been: Jean, Kinsey, Seha, Nina
After our dinner:
They all said that he is struggling with stuff…everyday stuff…he knows how he feels about me, but doesn’t know how to express them (Nina says his tongue becomes paralyzed when he has to express his feelings). I gave him a lot to think about and I shook him up a bit.
Jean, Seha, and Nina all saw him coming around towards the end of July – Nina said end of July into beginning of August.
Kinsey gave a time frame of end of Sept.
Anasela gave a time frame of Autumn
No one picked up on another woman.
I decided to try Phoebe…She brought something up that no one picked up…at first I was confused and thought that she was talking about him being in a relationship now…but she said it was a past relationship that was done (and she was very correct in the years and info that she gave – I never talked to anyone on CP about this) She gave a time frame of September – of a reach out and then it we would take it slow and test the waters.
I had a reading with Seha 2 weeks ago in regards to him and an issue that I was having with a friend. She hit the nail on the head in regards to my friend without giving her any info on her…she just answered the question and then some…and she told me that there was no one in his life…and she gave me a time frame of October. He would reach out with an email…small talk…to test the waters.
I felt so confident with what they said. I saw it all to be possible.
Now…I am not so sure. Afte I sent my ex the “Hello How are you” email…2 ½ hours later I followed it up with “please disregard my previous email thank you” I just do not think he is going to reach out after that. It is not my personality to do that. This was Wednesday and today is Saturday and I haven’t heard a thing from him.
I will be unsubscribing to CP. I just can’t do it anymore.
I had 2 final readings with Nina and Seha because they have been the most accurate with me and I am debating if I should have one with Jean.
I will break it down in 2 posts.
optx88:
Nina: I spoke to her Thursday and all I said was “I last spoke to you about 2 months ago and I was wondering if you can give me an update on what is going on with my ex?”
Nina: “I am going to work with his energy today and right off the bat I will tell you that there is no one else. There is not another woman. So there is no need for you to have those worries. I see a battle between head and heart with him. He keeps suppressing his feelings for you and they keep coming back up. Is he the Hockey guy?”
Me: yes he is
N: “your time frame has already come and gone. The two of you should have been together already. The delay is due to him sometimes you need a negative in order to get a positive result. Right now there is a negative going on with him but I am not sure what it is. He is not making good decisions with his head. But you…your energy is negative. You will not believe anything that I tell you today. You have thrown in the towel and you do not think that you will hear from him , see him, or think any of this will come to pass. You reached out to him within the last day or two?
M: Yes
N: an email? A light hearted email?
M: yes
N: he has not yet responded, but he will. Give him a few days. But when he responds…so do you. You don’t want to respond to his emails…if you don’t…that will be a mistake. You will be surprised by what he has to say. You won’t believe what he has to say and he understands and recognizes he now has to work harder and he will. He was at a stand still and it seems like out of no where he gets slapped in the face with something and wakes up and aggressively moves forward with you. You won’t believe me…but I see this starting to happen towards the end of this month going into September.
M: when he received my email what was he thinking?
N: he was happy to hear from you, but very surprised to hear from you. He didn’t think he would.
M: a lil while later I sent him a 2nd email…what was he thinking?
N: he doesn’t understand and he is very confused. He doesn’t know why you did that? What did you say in the 2nd email?
M: disregard my previous email. Thank you
N: why would you do that?
M: because he has a girlfriend.
N: are you assuming that? Because you didn’t hear that from him. He never responded to your email and there isn’t another woman that comes through.
M: I saw it on facebook and she said “my awesome boyfriend”
N: he can’t believe everything you read on those sites. People write things sometimes and it is not what it really is. I am telling you…I do not see another girl I keep seeing you and him long term marriage…that has never changed with you two. Absolutely nothing is coming up in regards to another woman. I just don’t think this is of any relevance and will not change your outcome. I think she is making it more than what it is. Do not get hung up on this…she does not come up in his energy.
I ended the conversation basically saying that I just don’t believe any of this. I wish I could…but it just doesn’t seem possible. 8 weeks without hearing from him is not a good sign and if there wasn’t anything going on with him and her and if she was making more out of it, then he would put a stop to it and delete her comment from him art page. (I’m not friends with him on his own page and it is super private so I can’t see anything :-\ )
I really do want to believe what she says....and her and Seha are basically saying the same as my friends....but i just don't see it. He would have already...no?
optx88:
My reading with Seha:
M: Just wanted to see if there are any updates since we spoke 2 weeks ago in regards to my ex
S: I am picking up a lot of conflict. Conflict within himself. Wow this has really changed since last we spoke. He feels guilty…he feels like he let you down…he feels like he is going to lose you…”what did I do” wow…he is just has so much conflict within himself…this is so strange…your time frame has changed…it’s moved up…but its going like in a wave. I see that you will hear from him any day into maybe a few weeks…maybe a month or into the 2nd…hhhmmm…this is so strange.
He isn’t ready to commit to you…he isn’t ready for you…but he just feels so guilty…I just keep getting feelings of he let you down and doesn’t know if he lost you…he doesn’t know what to do.
M: I sent him an email yesterday. What was he thinking?
S: he was pleasantly surprised to hear from you.
M: when he received the email…did he have intentions of responding?
S: Yes his initial reaction was to respond…but then he stopped and he is not sure what to do. He seems very confused.
M: I sent him a 2nd email 2.5 hrs later…what was he thinking?
S: he is really confused. He doesn’t understand why you sent it.
M: will he respond?
S: yes…but not for a few days…he just doesn’t know what to say. What did the 2nd email say?
M: please disregard my email thank you
S: well that explains his confusion. Why would you say that?
M: because he has a GF
S: no he doesn’t another woman is not coming up…hang on and I will check again…no…nothing is coming up…there is no other woman. What is making you think that? He didn’t tell you
M: facebook
S: I’m telling you nothing is coming up…if this girl mattered one bit to him…it would come up. I think she is making it more than what it is. Right now she is significant to you because you saw it…but she really isn’t significant at all. I’m telling you this isn’t anything and that is why she is not coming up. Do you have a name and dob
M: yes (gave it to her)
S: oh…honey…this is not what you think…it is not even what she thinks…she is really making more of it than what it is. She is hopeful but she is all over the place she is hopeful but yet uncertain she is hopeful but she looks . this again isn’t anything and right now it is only signifant to you and you need to put it out of your mind. This is pretty recent and as fast as it went in is as fast as it will go out. Again…she is making it more than what it is.
M: does he know why I sent the 2nd email?
S: no…not yet…but he will put it together soon enough. This explains the conflict and stuff. You really do not have a thing to worry about. Be patient and work on you. He will be back and like I always said…I see the 2 of you together in a relationship and I see marriage.
I ended this call too with I just don’t see it and I just don’t’ think you are correct. I do not think he will reach out if there is someone else… no matter what her relevance is and I just can’t do this anymore…and she keeps insisting she is right.
I don’t know…i really like Seha...any thoughts or advise? Do I believe them or doubth them? They are both saying the same exact things that my friends are saying :-\
LiveLaughLove:
:(( Greengrl I feel your pain! It's hard to know who to believe and who not to believe. I've been dealing with that for a while. Maybe try and go with your gut feeling? If your friends know more about your ex and this so called relationship then maybe believe what they are saying...this is a hard one...I wish I could give some sound advice on this situation. But regardless, stay as strong but cry as much as you need! I still cry and it's been 7 months lol. Sometimes it makes me feel a little better when I get it all out especially because I keep a smile on my face so much that all the sadness gets pint up inside. Hopefully none of it is what it seems and Nina and Seha are saying what's REALLY going to happen :)
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