Ok, so here's my story, so you can see that it's a little unique and I can usually tell if I am getting "lines" from psychics:
I met POI in July of 2016 through my stepdaughter and a mutual friend who works with him. I had been divorced a couple of years and he was divorced about 5 years. It was kind of a joke, like let's put you two together since you both are just looking for Friday night date nights. We went out and honestly, I didn't think it would work. We are very different, but there was some sort of connection that I can't really explain even now. He told me in the first 30 minutes how 1) he has a heart condition 2) his youngest son is a heroin addict 3) he had filed bankruptcy and was served with divorce papers while recovering from open heart surgery and 4) had to take his mother off life support all within the same couple of years. He looked at me to see my reaction. He was used to people taking off when they heard his history. I was the first who didn't walk away. I wasn't really invested in it at the time, so I figured let's see where this goes.
I dated him for 10 months. He was very insecure. He always said that I was too good for him and gave a lot of indications that he thought I would leave. He was self-sabotaging a lot. He did have good traits though, and most of his insecurities were in his own head. He was gainfully employed, good looking (to me anyway), very loyal, and very protective of me. Everything I wanted in a man.
We broke up in May of 2017. There was an argument, but nothing that warranted a break up. He faded out of the relationship with excuses that he had to work or was tired or not feeling well, etc. He contacted me in August and seemed like he wanted to reconnect, but again, things didn't go anywhere. In October I found out that his addicted son got arrested in August, September, and October on drug charges. The October arrest was a felony charge, that landed him in jail for a couple of months (through the Thanksgiving holiday). Not only did he get arrested 3 times, but in between his arrests, my POI found him unconscious from an OD and thought he was dead. He had to Narcan him. I also found out that he had been paying for the rehabs and legal fees in cash (remember, he had a bankruptcy, so he didn't have credit). So he was in huge financial problems again.
So, in May of this year, I tried again to reach out. He seemed receptive and we made plans to get together to catch up. He ended bailing at the last minute saying he had too much to do and just couldn't make it. I flipped out. Maybe it was wrong for me to lose my shit, but I was so frustrated at this point, I couldn't control myself. I told him that it's apparent that we are in different places in our lives, that I am looking for someone to grow old with, and that I wished him love and happiness. I never heard from him again.
My readings have all said we would reconnect although timelines have passed. DL and Zadalia were the 2 people who picked up addiction immediately with a child. They are empaths though, and don't do timelines. They felt the love was there and that he wants to reconnect when he is ready. He has regrets and knows he wasn't fair to me. DL said he needs support like Al-anon. Kisha said the reconnect would be 2/8, 2/6, and 2/4. Since I read with her every 2 months since June, it appears that the 2 may be February and the second number looks like the number of months (which actually aligns). Idk, it's a difficult situation. Part of me says move on. Part of me knows he needs me.
