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Tricks of the Trade
maroonlight:
--- Quote from: njlady on July 02, 2018, 03:14:48 PM ---Why do you want to keep getting back together with exes? That is living your life looking in the rear view mirror. When he leaves, cut him off. And you call and call and call because you want your past that didn't work out back again?
If I were at a restaurant and was told that my meal would be out in 10 minutes, it didn't come, asked again, was given a new time frame, didn't happen, got a new time frame andthat didn't happen either, I wouldn't keep asking.
Have you tried asking what you need to work on relationship wise or in choosing specific qualities in a man?
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If you haven't already noticed, 99% of people on this website are calling about someone an ex, someone from their past, or someone who doesn't share the same feelings, or a toxic relationship. Probably 95% of people in general who contact psychics are contacting them because of the same reasons.
I went through a period where I was meeting and dating new people, and just nothing clicked for me or sparked my interest. I can't stop thinking about him or wanting him. If I could control my emotions like that then I would've saved close to 5k because I never would've contacted psychics in the first place if it wasn't for the emotional heartache I've experienced.
If I could just control everything that I feel with a snap of my finger I wouldn't be on this website because I wouldn't be calling psychics.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: maroonlight on July 02, 2018, 04:12:33 PM ---
--- Quote from: njlady on July 02, 2018, 03:14:48 PM ---Why do you want to keep getting back together with exes? That is living your life looking in the rear view mirror. When he leaves, cut him off. And you call and call and call because you want your past that didn't work out back again?
If I were at a restaurant and was told that my meal would be out in 10 minutes, it didn't come, asked again, was given a new time frame, didn't happen, got a new time frame andthat didn't happen either, I wouldn't keep asking.
Have you tried asking what you need to work on relationship wise or in choosing specific qualities in a man?
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If you haven't already noticed, 99% of people on this website are calling about someone an ex, someone from their past, or someone who doesn't share the same feelings, or a toxic relationship. Probably 95% of people in general who contact psychics are contacting them because of the same reasons.
I went through a period where I was meeting and dating new people, and just nothing clicked for me or sparked my interest. I can't stop thinking about him or wanting him. If I could control my emotions like that then I would've saved close to 5k because I never would've contacted psychics in the first place if it wasn't for the emotional heartache I've experienced.
If I could just control everything that I feel with a snap of my finger I wouldn't be on this website because I wouldn't be calling psychics.
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I agree. not so easy to let go. Personally, I don't click with many and I don't really have intense chemistry with many either, so when I do find that, it's hard for me to move on...
maroonlight:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on July 02, 2018, 04:18:39 PM ---
--- Quote from: maroonlight on July 02, 2018, 04:12:33 PM ---
--- Quote from: njlady on July 02, 2018, 03:14:48 PM ---Why do you want to keep getting back together with exes? That is living your life looking in the rear view mirror. When he leaves, cut him off. And you call and call and call because you want your past that didn't work out back again?
If I were at a restaurant and was told that my meal would be out in 10 minutes, it didn't come, asked again, was given a new time frame, didn't happen, got a new time frame andthat didn't happen either, I wouldn't keep asking.
Have you tried asking what you need to work on relationship wise or in choosing specific qualities in a man?
--- End quote ---
If you haven't already noticed, 99% of people on this website are calling about someone an ex, someone from their past, or someone who doesn't share the same feelings, or a toxic relationship. Probably 95% of people in general who contact psychics are contacting them because of the same reasons.
I went through a period where I was meeting and dating new people, and just nothing clicked for me or sparked my interest. I can't stop thinking about him or wanting him. If I could control my emotions like that then I would've saved close to 5k because I never would've contacted psychics in the first place if it wasn't for the emotional heartache I've experienced.
If I could just control everything that I feel with a snap of my finger I wouldn't be on this website because I wouldn't be calling psychics.
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I agree. not so easy to let go. Personally, I don't click with many and I don't really have intense chemistry with many either, so when I do find that, it's hard for me to move on...
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That’s my whole problem. I can meet one person after another and feel no chemistry, and then when I meet someone I like it’s really intense and I have a really hard time letting go.
We aren’t crazy. Like I said, if everyone could just control their feelings and move on right after someone leaves then, psychic networks would not be getting any business.
maroonlight:
--- Quote from: Still tired on July 02, 2018, 05:21:39 PM ---
--- Quote from: maroonlight on July 02, 2018, 05:04:04 PM ---
--- Quote from: sawthelight on July 02, 2018, 04:18:39 PM ---I agree. not so easy to let go. Personally, I don't click with many and I don't really have intense chemistry with many either, so when I do find that, it's hard for me to move on...
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That’s my whole problem. I can meet one person after another and feel no chemistry, and then when I meet someone I like it’s really intense and I have a really hard time letting go.
We aren’t crazy. Like I said, if everyone could just control their feelings and move on right after someone leaves then, psychic networks would not be getting any business.
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Same for me. I don't meet many men I truly have chemistry with, or have much in common with or have a connection with. And I won't settle for being with someone who bores me or can't relate to me.
I bet there are astrological features in our natal charts that correspond to this. I have Pluto in my first house and I believe it tends to increase the desire for an intense connection.
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It’s certainly frustrating, but I can’t date someone just for the sake of dating them, nor can I magically delete my feelings for someone.
I tried dating others but I just wasn’t having any luck so I took a break.
It’s annoying because we are talking again and I know he likes me but for whatever reason won’t act on it. At some point when I feel more comfortable I am going to ask him if he wants to go out and see how he responds to that. I know part of the reason that I haven’t let go is because he hasn’t cut me off completely but at the same time I feel there is a chance for reconciliation because of that. Time will tell. I am just done trying new readers because it’s gotten me nowhere. They don’t know jack shit.
HornetKick:
Oh yeah the boredom.
To just go out to dinner or to just be friends with a guy to get a free meal. I hate when people tell me that. I find it's such a huge waste of my time and it takes so much energy to appear as if I'm interested in something when I'm not. I'm totally drained afterwards.
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