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Need someone to talk to (crying as i type this)
Dreamer23:
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--- Quote from: Bostongirl on July 01, 2018, 05:49:00 PM ---Go see a DR and get help, they can prescribe a little something to help you get through this. Get counseling. I think the more readings you get the more upset it makes people. Wishing you all the best.
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Yeah, im not one to medicate. Its a tempral fix that can cause long lasting side effects. I am fine. I had a moment. Im dealing with a broken heart and the best way to “fix it” is to go through it not around it. Seeing a counselor: tried that and i ended up counseling them because i am a counselor. Their is no one size fits all solution to and for a broken heart. Im a preety tough person but even a person who is strong breaks down too, and thats ok. Thank you for the well wishes. Im still hurting and i will hurt for as long as my heart needs to mend but with the friends ive made here and the fight in me. I got it 💪
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I am sorry to hear you're going through a tough time. I know what you mean by counselors I have a hard time finding someone too because I am a counselor myself so I am looking for a lot when I try to speak to someone.
What has helped me is healings...reiki , chakra healings...those sorts. If you can find a good healer and someone who is spiritual, I know it has helped me tremendously.
Sending you lots of love and goodness <3
maroonlight:
--- Quote from: FlutterShy on July 04, 2018, 06:57:12 PM ---I kinda have to disagree on something... post like these are not fine.
Keep in mind while probably the best thing to do at times like these is post when feeling suicidal ... moments and behavior like this are not just “fine”. Serious and long term help is needed.
And this is not to bring you down or anyone who does post like this... I too tried other forums that are exclusively quitting psychics but don’t like them either. I too have posts like these where I’m utterly broke to financial ruin, left stranded ghosted on my POI as well, and it is unbearable. It is utterly emotionally so painful and a problem.
But this is an issue, posts like these happen quite frequently...and scarier is we wouldn’t know if suicide happened or if people got better.
All I’m saying- there are too many post like these. I wish there was more than this forum about the utter mental anguish with psychics.
Also...No...Medication may not be the answer for lots of reason, I mean we don’t know you outside this forum, but I would also disagree too for the reasons you stated. It could help with depression, and manage extreme emotional outbursts such as impulsivity, while you address the core psychological issues, and some of those side effect would be worth short term if it meant learning effective coping skills. Is it that easy? Oh God no! All that needs medical, financial, and attention ...and you’re right what about long term effects... but I would also still argue very strongly to opening up to the idea of continuing getting help besides this forum. And secondly, this kind of issue does need more medical awareness. So many people post on here about how their therapist doesn’t know what a psychic addiction is... so how can they effectively treat this?
I dunno what I meant to accomplish by posting this, but... it’s definetly not to make you feel bad, I do help you get help and I hope others do too who feel this bad.
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I can somewhat agree with you. I don't think we can get the help we truly need through the forum and people are often afraid to discuss it with friends, relatives, therapists, etc. because so many people have never even heard of psychic addiction before so it is embarrassing to say the least.
Reviewer07:
What are the psychics saying? I’m going through heartbreak and I’ve reached for help, I started seeing a therapist. Also in Australia we have helpline sthat you can call for feee 24/7 theyhelpheaps maybe see if there is something like that in your area. I didn’t believe it but time really does heal. I’m not over yes but each day I’m getting better and for awhile I couldn’t see it but time does heal. Keep distracted do things you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t. Stay off their social media helps too. Joining a meditation group has helped me immensely. Don’t know if you can pm me but I’m happy s to listen.
CrazyLace - P:
I'm sorry you were feeling this way a few days ago, I hope you are feeling better. I hope you reread what you wrote: you said that you're 'everybody's somebody'. Wow! You're amazing! Do you see your worth? Your value to others? Are you sharing your worth and your value with yourself???? You mentioned that no one comes to your need, they may be selfish, unaware or simply acknowledge your inner strength and believe that you could never be down (and be honest, that is a realistic perception that people make). It's up to you to speak up for yourself and solicit help, just as you did here. :-) One last thing, you mentioned the person being a 'jerk'...hmmmm so you realize their level of operation (deeming them a 'jerk'), and yet you feel so much pain over the loss of a 'jerk' and yet you are 'everybody's somebody'...I don't get it. Yet I feel you. Please understand that I am coming from a place of love, I too have been suicidal in my past and just as you noted, I 'didn't want to die, I just wanted the pain to go away'.
I am sending you positive energy and conscious vibes (to awaken you 'cause you're a Diva and don't know it! LOL!! You better stop acting like you ain't power-filled!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!).
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