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Staying friends with someone you love
njlady:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on May 17, 2018, 12:44:53 AM ---Do you guys think this is possible?
This guy I’m getting readings on, I know he cares...I know he likes me. I don’t, however see him making any comments that make me think he wants to persue a relationship...at least not directly.
So I’ve basically resigned myself that nothing will happen with him, despite all the readings telling me otherwise.
I don’t know if being friends is doable. I guess I can try but what do you guys think?
One time when I cut him off he got really upset, and he didn’t do anything (yet lol) to deserve that.
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So did you tell him yet?
You don't have him right now anyway. If you tell him and get a no-go, you can always fall back on RS/RI and pulling away to have him see you in a different light and come forward.
But what if he says yes? Think of the fun you'll have.
Seeker:
What is "RS/RI"? I'm not familiar with that one.
njlady:
--- Quote from: Seeker on July 01, 2018, 01:37:22 PM ---What is "RS/RI"? I'm not familiar with that one.
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Remote Seduction and Remote Influence
Seeker:
^ Ah. Thank you :)
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: njlady on July 01, 2018, 10:58:27 AM ---
--- Quote from: sawthelight on May 17, 2018, 12:44:53 AM ---Do you guys think this is possible?
This guy I’m getting readings on, I know he cares...I know he likes me. I don’t, however see him making any comments that make me think he wants to persue a relationship...at least not directly.
So I’ve basically resigned myself that nothing will happen with him, despite all the readings telling me otherwise.
I don’t know if being friends is doable. I guess I can try but what do you guys think?
One time when I cut him off he got really upset, and he didn’t do anything (yet lol) to deserve that.
--- End quote ---
So did you tell him yet?
You don't have him right now anyway. If you tell him and get a no-go, you can always fall back on RS/RI and pulling away to have him see you in a different light and come forward.
But what if he says yes? Think of the fun you'll have.
--- End quote ---
No, he's isn't the type of guy to respond well to pressure-also he knows how i feel but there is a distance issue with us, so things never really "took off" so to speak.
Definitely not going to be the one to initiate any kind of talks as to where this is all going, the ball is in his court now. He knows how to reach me. Not really my style anyway.
I'm not waiting around though, definitely keeping my options open, just no other real possibilities right now.
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