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Update... omg.
njlady:
I'm so sorry for what you are going through.
You do not want a man who breaks up with a woman who has just lost a baby by text back. I don't care what sorry excuse he comes up with for his behavior. There is no excuse. He is a piece of shit. He will only get worse as the years go by. I know it hurts a lot now, but it will hurt much more years down the road if you took him back. Thank God he showed his true colors now before it was too late.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Still tired on May 21, 2018, 04:54:40 PM ---
--- Quote from: njlady on May 21, 2018, 02:58:03 PM ---I'm so sorry for what you are going through.
You do not want a man who breaks up with a woman who has just lost a baby by text back. I don't care what sorry excuse he comes up with for his behavior. There is no excuse. He is a piece of shit. He will only get worse as the years go by. I know it hurts a lot now, but it will hurt much more years down the road if you took him back. Thank God he showed his true colors now before it was too late.
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I completely agree.
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Me too. 100%
Bostongirl:
He lost the baby too. Men don't handle their emotions that well. Don't say never. Its hard to judge when we don't know the whole story.
sawthelight:
My current guy does handle his grief strangely, also. He tends to lash out at people (like me) who don't deserve it...
njlady:
--- Quote from: Bostongirl on May 21, 2018, 05:55:59 PM ---He lost the baby too. Men don't handle their emotions that well. Don't say never. Its hard to judge when we don't know the whole story.
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Honestly, exactly how badly does a man have to treat some of you before you stop making excuses for them and wanting them back?
His behavior was subhuman. Unless the rest of the story included her trying to stab him, he's a terrible person and that's all there is to it.
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