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Update... omg.
candiednut:
--- Quote from: njlady on May 21, 2018, 07:07:52 PM ---
--- Quote from: Bostongirl on May 21, 2018, 05:55:59 PM ---He lost the baby too. Men don't handle their emotions that well. Don't say never. Its hard to judge when we don't know the whole story.
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Honestly, exactly how badly does a man have to treat some of you before you stop making excuses for them and wanting them back?
His behavior was subhuman. Unless the rest of the story included her trying to stab him, he's a terrible person and that's all there is to it.
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Agreed.
sawthelight:
I agree...we, as women, tend to make way too many excuses for some of these men.
Prob a driving force as to why we get readings on them too.
When I was in the depths of my reading addiction, I actually used to sort of excuse the POI's misbehavior based on what the psychic's told me (oh, he's stressed, going through family problems, has a difficult past)! Even though I didn't even know for sure if it was true! I could kick myself.
Sooshi:
--- Quote from: candiednut on May 21, 2018, 07:55:19 PM ---
Sorry feeling kind of political and "feminist" today lol.
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Don't ever apologize for that.
HornetKick:
--- Quote from: njlady on May 21, 2018, 07:07:52 PM ---Honestly, exactly how badly does a man have to treat some of you before you stop making excuses for them and wanting them back?
His behavior was subhuman. Unless the rest of the story included her trying to stab him, he's a terrible person and that's all there is to it.
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Exactly. If it were a female who treated us as badly as the men do, women are much more able to dropkick the female to the curb. But if it's someone who has history with a man, woman take all kinds of abuse and make excuses for the men, so they themselves then become the reason for the mistreatment. I don't get it.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: HornetKick on May 21, 2018, 11:56:19 PM ---
--- Quote from: njlady on May 21, 2018, 07:07:52 PM ---Honestly, exactly how badly does a man have to treat some of you before you stop making excuses for them and wanting them back?
His behavior was subhuman. Unless the rest of the story included her trying to stab him, he's a terrible person and that's all there is to it.
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Exactly. If it were a female who treated us as badly as the men do, women are much more able to dropkick the female to the curb. But if it's someone who has history with a man, woman take all kinds of abuse and make excuses for the men, so they themselves then become the reason for the mistreatment. I don't get it.
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So true.
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