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Taking Readings with a Grain of Salt

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maroonlight:
Well here I am again, with a 3rd POI. After months of not reading I've had several readings with independent readers, not from keen or CP.

Most of them have been crappy and the readers asked way too many questions and got a ton of past and present details completely wrong.


In the past 2 days I had 2 good and accurate readings from 2 different readers, and what they said was actually very similar in detail as well as timing, and they picked up on specifics of the situation extremely accurately.

So I should be seeing the outcome by the end of April, which was indeed positive.

The POI and I have not been seeing each other since November, but we are still on good terms and we have been in friendly contact multiple times since. I know he still likes me and even flirts and is affectionate. He has acknowledged more than once that I have been on his mind. His reason to stopping seeing me was because he was over-stressed, just got out of a 2 year relationship, and had a million different things going on in his life and said he needed to take a break from dating completely.

So the situation is not as hopeless as my last 2 POIs, where we were not in contact at all for months on end.

I was excited after today's reading, but then I remembered how I was completely let down and disappointed by psychics the last two times, with the exact opposite of the designated outcome occurring.

So at this point, I am still open minded that we will get back together, but I am partially letting go. If things don't change much at all by March I have decided that I am going to start dating others again, and if this guy does come back then it will be a success story and I will let everyone know who was right for me. I know that I can't sit around for months and wait for this and be absolutely devastated and heartbroken if nothing happens and he ends up moving on with his life. I definitely feel like there is hope because he swears that he did not end things because he doesn't like me, and we are still in contact, and no, it did NOT turn into a FWB situation which happens so often. He made it clear that he did not want to see me just to have sex.

So to conclude, I am going to stop getting readings for now and just see what pans out so I am prepared if things don't go as planned..

FaithandTruth:
Hey Maroonlight...are you staying strong?  Have you called since this post?

maroonlight:

--- Quote from: FaithandTruth on February 19, 2018, 03:13:13 PM ---Hey Maroonlight...are you staying strong?  Have you called since this post?

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So far, yes. I actually deleted both my CP and keen account the other day so I'm not calling anyone at the moment.

FaithandTruth:

--- Quote from: maroonlight on February 19, 2018, 04:47:51 PM ---
--- Quote from: FaithandTruth on February 19, 2018, 03:13:13 PM ---Hey Maroonlight...are you staying strong?  Have you called since this post?

--- End quote ---

So far, yes. I actually deleted both my CP and keen account the other day so I'm not calling anyone at the moment.

--- End quote ---

🙌 Good for you!   I’m having a crave today so bad....not calling though. It’s been 2 weeks. I need to stay strong.

maroonlight:

--- Quote from: FaithandTruth on February 19, 2018, 09:33:50 PM ---
--- Quote from: maroonlight on February 19, 2018, 04:47:51 PM ---
--- Quote from: FaithandTruth on February 19, 2018, 03:13:13 PM ---Hey Maroonlight...are you staying strong?  Have you called since this post?

--- End quote ---

So far, yes. I actually deleted both my CP and keen account the other day so I'm not calling anyone at the moment.

--- End quote ---

🙌 Good for you!   I’m having a crave today so bad....not calling though. It’s been 2 weeks. I need to stay strong.

--- End quote ---

In order to release my cravings lately, I've just kept reminding myself that all they're going to do is tell me what I want to hear and that may or may not be true, but it's not going to change the outcome of the situation.

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