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AngelGuided:
Yes, that's an interesting site, it was one of two good ones I found when I was researching this topic.

aef2929 P:
Healer -- so glad you got in to get a reading with Seha let us know!!!  I love Seha I feel she is a real psychic.

PT -- on the timing -- things get pushed due to a change in the energy.  And when you are dealing with soulmates behaviors have alot to do with it.  They go off their path...you go off your path...it alters things...that's the free will...you want to experience something or the other person chooses to experience something along the way and it make a slight turn on things but the destination stays the same.  And on timing...both people have to be "ready" otherwise the Universe says no no not just yet.  That's because the Universe sets you both up for the optimum time so that it works.  And...I can't remember who wrote in here somewhere about manifesting and your focus etc...either Libra or Fm I think but that was on the money.  What you focus on is what you send out into the Universe.  So if you are focusing on this person being separated from you and not taking care of YOU and putting yourself first....then you're not ready.  We are all supposed to be walking around like we are the one for this person and we know it! Like we're already with them but we're just not in the physical.  So it's kind of like act the part or play the part until it actually happens.  That's what manifesting is about.  The "I am" statement....I am a megamillions jackpot lottery winner!   :)  Act like you have no money worries and then you won't!  Stuff like that...you focus on lack and you will get lack.  So on the timing usually the energy is there for that timing but then something happens like someone takes or makes an action etc....and it changes the energy slightly.  It's usually we or they don't follow through on something that makes that energy change a bit. 

Now, I will warn you also we can totally change the outcome of what's being read for us by our own actions.  You make some huge move or change or contact or something off the wall and your entire outcome will change because that will have totally damaged the situation.  That's why I say why call for a reading and then not follow the course of action being recommended to us.  When we do that, like trying to force the soulmate to move along faster than it supposed to be, then we are interfering with their experience here...which is why we are all on this plane.  The result of those actions and behaviors we make are what is often called karmic.  when we drag someone or something else into our situation then we have karma with that person because of our actions.  And that changes everything.  dont' try to control the situation....let it play out the way it's supposed to.

So all these things are factors with a reading and timing.

positivethoughts:
Very interesting aef. Thank you.  :) :) :) Another question - can the psychics sometimes see the caller or other person make the "big" off the wall change that changes the outcome?

kirakira:
Reading through I thought of these lyrics:

i can't make you love me if you don't
you can't make your heart feel
somethin' it wont
here in the dark,in these final hours
i will lay down my heart
and feel the power if you wont
no you wont
cuz i can't make you love me
if you don't

It is my belief, easier said than always done of course, that if you become obsessed with obtaining the love of a person, if you can only focus on this, you will lose yourself while at the same time losing precious days of your own lifetime that should be spent loving the ones who do love you.  How many people frustrate or disconnect from their family and friends over these issues? 
I think with all these readings and hopes, we must all remember that whether we like it or feel it is against fate or not, the other people involved are entitled to their feelings.  And we must ask ourselves why we are holding on to this person so dearly, and possibly, do we really really really want to be with them or do we just want to be right and win?  What does that actually even look like?  Are we kidding ourselves or holding on to a past memory, forsaking the ins and outs of daily life that make it less than ideal? 
Loneliness is like a monster nobody enjoys being captive to, but we cannot ward it off with wishful thinking.  We do not create reality by believing we are with a person with whom we are not.  We create reality by living each day as it comes and embracing new opportunities to grow and be less selfishly or even foolishly inclined.  Your true destiny will unfold beautifully and perfectly if you let it and stop dragging yourself down by being hung up on something that may or may not exist.

Why do I just know this will piss somebody off?  Even though it is from a pure caring place... I'm finding this truth for myself and sharing it with you all.

ilovelola32:
i like whta you said Kira Kira...it makes sense

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