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ilovelola32:
CJJEAN - I am so glad you are living your life!! You go girl...enjoy getting compliments from sexy men and feeling goood about yourself...I know two people that don't feel good...A dumb man who got a chick pregnant hat he doesn't love and a chick who is pregnant to a guy who doesnt love her....
AngelGuided....have you thought about dating? While he is being a dumbass maybe you should date...think of it a vacation for you while his head is in his ass....Atleast men would be complementing you and taking you to dinner....and who knows? If anything 1. you will get confidence 2. you will make your husband jealous 3. It will be a distracction for you..4. you might meet a great guy and say thank god I am not with that stupid ass husband or 6. When you get back with your husband maybe you will have less hurt because you had a little fun =) Just saying! I used the okcupid dating site and I liked it a lot....
cj:
::) oh lola :-*
positivethoughts:
aef - do you have any insight as to why timelines get pushed out? I thought I remember reading something on it once. Like if my timeline keeps getting pushed out month after month it could be because I'm doing something wrong - like obsessing? lol
thx
AngelGuided:
Hi ilovelola! Yes, I've thought about doing the dating thing. It's just been so long for me, I've been a bit nervous and not feeling ready. Also, with the legal battles I've wanted to be careful to not appear in a relationship, but having dinner, etc is not a crime! I told my husband a couple weeks ago that I was having a great time dating, even though I'm not. Could tell it bothered him. Would just need to find the right type of distraction, this guy was texting me all the time the first few months and everything was sexual. It was a real turn off. He didn't want to go out anywhere, he wanted to come to my home. I said no to that! I don't want someone new coming to my house, especially with my daughter. I wouldn't have minded having dinner or a movie in a public place, but he kept talking about soaking in my hot tub! I've never done the online thing? :P
PT, check out info on "dwelling" to see if you fit the profile. I know I've been guilty of this which may be my problem too? Healer I noticed London was gone again, wonder if she's still sick? Keep having fun with the salsa!
positivethoughts:
This is pretty interesting about dwelling. Maybe I put this link in the wrong section of this site.?
http://www.mysticwonder.org/dwelling.html
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