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HornetKick:
--- Quote from: Bostongirl on October 07, 2017, 09:13:12 PM ---She's a bitch..... Glad I didn't spend my money on her.
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Laughing my butt off. I don't feel that way, but you have every right to feel as you do because as you've noticed many people make excuses for these readers and even though they claim they aren't god, they sure as hell act like it.
ladya:
--- Quote from: Still tired on October 07, 2017, 09:59:16 PM ---Imagine if you go to the grocery store and they refuse to ring you up because you didn't say hello. Lol
Of course it is someones to do that prerogative if they run their own business, but it doesn't mean it's not stupid.
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i just think its disrespectful to not acknowledge someone lol. i always say hi how are you even to the cashier. i mean its just common courtesy lol i find it odd how its considered ok not to do this. i like to be respected so i treat others that way. to each their own.
ladya:
--- Quote from: njlady on October 07, 2017, 08:02:58 PM ---
--- Quote from: HornetKick on October 03, 2017, 02:21:42 AM ---Does it really crush your spirit if I don't say hello?
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When a client comes to me, they are seeking my help in a matter that they do not have the knowledge, ability, experience, education or license to handle themselves. I will do this for them in exchange for money. I steer the relationship. I am the one with the skill. They come to me.
It doesn't "crush my spirit". If their social skills haven't surpassed that of a three year old, it is an indicator of what things will be like if I choose to handle their matter, so it will likely result in my telling them that I am sorry but I cannot help them or that I can't take on any more work at this time. Because these people are almost always in a crisis situation, it rarely works out well for them. But for me, it works great. I've saved myself from a headache client.
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right. thats what im saying. i feel the same way. :o if she cared about the money she wouldn't care and just keep reading cause its money. just shows she cares about the relationships with those she reads for and wants there to be a mutual level of understanding and respect. i would do the same thing tbh maybe not in the way she did it.
Sooshi:
This is a little more personal than a grocery store transaction. We don't dump our problems on a clerk in a store. Or at least I hope no one on here does that. Emotional labor is hard work that is most often not even acknowledged for being work. These people on the other end of the line are playing the role of our therapists, with widely varying levels of expertise. Some have actual counselling training, most don't. Some are psychic, most aren't. Just like the customers vary. Some are well adjusted, others aren't. Some are just looking for predictions. Others are looking for insight into their situations. Some call for entertainment. Others call because they need emotional support.
Sooshi:
That doesn't contradict anything I said.
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