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Zadalia
ladya:
--- Quote from: scorpiorising221 on October 04, 2017, 04:50:00 PM ---
--- Quote from: Bostongirl on October 03, 2017, 11:29:00 PM ---seriously I'm a customer and the customer is always right. Never had a problem with anyone else. She didn't want to read with me and it was an excuse. No one turns down money because someone didn't say hello.
Im calling to ask questions. Really, I don't know her or her me. Not saying hello is not rude.
Personally I wouldn't block someone because they didn't say hello. As I said I had a problem getting through to her. I feel she switched off over the weekend when I tried to contact.
As I said her loss not mine.
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Nope. not really, at that point you were talking for free so you weren't really a customer yet. I don't know how a grown person can really justify not having common courtesy, someone providing a service can absolutely refuse to serve someone Kisha specifically writes on her listings she reserves the right to block or not read for anyone she wishes, I've known tons of readers who do the same.
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its quite off putting to me as well if someone didn't greet me if i was providing a service. its just a sign of respect. to be honest i probably wouldn't say anything but i wouldn't read for someone again if i felt treated like a machine or without respect.
sawthelight:
I kind of agree that it was rude. I always say, hey how are you etc...it's just common courtesy. It's similar to bitwine's free three min intro, you exchange common courtesies, or at least I do.
Universal9:
I myself feel good saying a Hello, how are you? Because then the reader will feel good too. She is a human being. And it just doesnt hurt saying this much, it creates a better opening connection anyways. I am sure the reader almost always then says "How can I help you". It seems like zadalia is a sensitive person, who reacts easily. Its not anything bad or harmful from what I can see. I also agree she just probably had a bad day (along with being generally sensitive to these things).
journalmuse:
Hello is a courtesy. If you don't have time to say hello, how can your reading be good? It's not good energy to be rushed when you have a reading. I understand time is money but if you don't have time for 10 seconds worth of pleasantries, then maybe you don't have enough time to really get a good reading either.
njlady:
--- Quote from: HornetKick on October 03, 2017, 02:21:42 AM ---Does it really crush your spirit if I don't say hello?
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When a client comes to me, they are seeking my help in a matter that they do not have the knowledge, ability, experience, education or license to handle themselves. I will do this for them in exchange for money. I steer the relationship. I am the one with the skill. They come to me.
It doesn't "crush my spirit". If their social skills haven't surpassed that of a three year old, it is an indicator of what things will be like if I choose to handle their matter, so it will likely result in my telling them that I am sorry but I cannot help them or that I can't take on any more work at this time. Because these people are almost always in a crisis situation, it rarely works out well for them. But for me, it works great. I've saved myself from a headache client.
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