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My Story
moonlight412:
How did it go for you?
Almost my story! It's 2 years instead of 7.. I have prayed whereever I could, have asked asked asked anywhere and everywhere for him to be back in my life..done loa, paychics tried to let go and ehat not.. I just can't seem to get over him, but I think I am exhausted now.. I feel I need to focus on myself more, love myself more and let him go even though I have to seem him daily.. maybe we are not meant to be! And I have to accept that! I try so hard but I still think about him.. I feel I am blocking any new energy to come into my life and missing out on true love..
Can anyone share any insights as to what they did?
Hopfullness:
Hello,
I'm sorry to read of your struggle. It can suck the lifeforce out of you! The last seven years have been so aging on me.
I still see her and there's always this innuendo but THAT'S ALL. We aren't dating, not even close.
Yesterday I was walking along and she came to my mind. I realized I'd not thought of her like most of the day. Wow.
I thought to myself "well, that just seems like history now". Right then I looked up and there I was in front of a store with her name
on the sign -- it was the brand name of the store. I just couldn't believe it. I think of her and then she's there in the weirdest ways.
Also, recently in the middle of the day I felt a lot of sexual energy towards her. I honestly think it was coming from her because it was just the most
random thing out of nowhere and I felt possessed for a good half hour! Lol.
But NOTHING has happened that's of substance. We are not together and I have little hope. I don't reach out to her ever, I don't imagine our future together
anything like as frequently as I used to. I just had to cry this one out and then let the pain sit there but not over identify with it. That's the only way I could
make any progress (by progress I mean find any peace around this).
My emotions towards her still fluctuate a lot. Sometimes I feel love, sometimes attachment, sometimes just full blown resentment. I feel she has ruined my life
in many ways but part of me knows that's not true - I chose this.
I hope your situation turns out differently than mine. I hope you don't lose yourself over this person. I have done that and now I have to somehow find my way
back to normalcy. It's been a harrowing journey.
moonlight412:
Thanks for your reply! It was like I was reading my own story when you mentioned the name of the store. If I see his name or anything related to him somewhere, then I feel it's a sign and this and that and hope and what not..lol.. but now, I am getting tired, even when I try to visualize I can't. I don't even know if I want this because I don't feel any love or joy in my heart. But, well, I won't give anymore negative energy to it and will cancel this thought..your post kind of snapped me back into reality, that sometimes manifestations happen and sometimes don't, maybe we are not vibrating at same level.. I will let him go and just focus on feeling great and loving myself enough.
If you haven't already, then please try tapping(EFT) it will help you a great deal..and for next 30 days let's tap and visualize that we are with a person who loves us and we love them (because I have been on the other side too, when I just couldn't love the other person, even though they were great friends and perfect, and this thought helps me understand why the guy I like can't love me).. If nothing, then we will have our imaginary boyfriend and girlfriend :)
Much love and positive vibes your way!
Hopfullness:
Thanks for the suggestion. I haven't tried tapping (consistently) but have thought about it in the past.
In truth, none of us know what the future holds. I hope her and I can have the courage to find happiness whether or not it
involves each other.
Not sure who you read with but just wanted to add that the most down to earth, realistic reader in my experience is LadyP. She's
always felt the connection and also warned me of the complications she saw. So if you ever need support, I would reco her. No
seeming fairytales.
Good luck!
bluebelle:
--- Quote from: Hopfullness on February 23, 2017, 03:55:21 PM ---Thanks for the suggestion. I haven't tried tapping (consistently) but have thought about it in the past.
In truth, none of us know what the future holds. I hope her and I can have the courage to find happiness whether or not it
involves each other.
Not sure who you read with but just wanted to add that the most down to earth, realistic reader in my experience is LadyP. She's
always felt the connection and also warned me of the complications she saw. So if you ever need support, I would reco her. No
seeming fairytales.
Good luck!
--- End quote ---
Agreed, Lady P is the best.
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